Crazy man. Have you noticed anything off in the tank?Sucks, I bought a mini red carpet, it moved about two inches over night one and then detached, it re appeared about seven days later but the following morning was under over an inch of sand, not seen since.
I actually put that nem in shroom lagoon and it did start melting and oozing before I got home and could remove it. Was a stressful day at work to say the least. Soon as I talked to the wife and she told me how it looked I knew immediately what happened. Could have nuked the tank im sure.
I should have listened to gut and never brought it home. I'm not even pushing enough par to keep a nem. I wanted to believe it was a shroom and did look exactly like a shroom!