i really hope notIm sure plenty of people on this forum have similar fish in similar tanks.
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i really hope notIm sure plenty of people on this forum have similar fish in similar tanks.
I usually direct people in this way in person. However, I find it better to vent frustration or criticism more positively. Sometimes, I slip up and can get frustrated or angry, but it is better to know where the person is coming from, figure out why they do it, and address the issue accordingly.It’s often easier to be mean in these moments, especially if you are frustrated or feel strongly about something like this. Reacting with criticism or bluntness can be a quick way to vent or make a point. However, being kind usually takes a bit more thought
In these cases, try to share advice or suggestions in a helpful manner. Try it with kindness and respect for your own autonomy. Frame your advice as a suggestion rather than a directive. Examples: "I’ve found it helpful to…," or "Have you thought about…?". This invites them to consider your input without making them feel pressured.
For this situation, saying something like "It’s awesome that you’re taking on the care of such a beautiful fish! I’ve read that a Blue Tang may need a lot of space to thrive because they’re such active swimmers. They might not be happy in smaller tanks, and it could cause health issues over time. If you’re open to it, there are some amazing fish that do well in a 10-gallon tank, like gobies or clownfish. Or, if you want to stick with the Tangs maybe a bigger tank in the future? Let me know if you’d like any suggestions! I’m happy to help if you want ideas on fish care or tank setup."
Just a suggestion, please don't take it out one me
Those are so tiny!! What size pvc fittings are those?I have 3 in a 20 gal.
Yeah, it can drive you crazy if you let it. I realized that none of us hobbyists are an authority in reefing. At best, we are recycling information that was passed to us, right or wrong, while mixing in some experience. It’s commendable to want to help, but we aren’t helping anyone by comparing our tank to theirs and telling them to reef like us. I usually explain the pros and cons of my reefing, and leave the decision of change up to them. It’s their tank and money after all. If we want to include ethics, then none of us should be keeping these animals captive, imo. All we can do is try our best and let others take their journey.I usually direct people in this way in person. However, I find it better to vent frustration or criticism more positively. Sometimes, I slip up and can get frustrated or angry, but it is better to know where the person is coming from, figure out why they do it, and address the issue accordingly.
Ah yes, because there's no hypocrisy in a fishkeeper telling other fishkeepers not to fish keep.
Im not sure what size it is maybe 10 or 20 but i was on youtube and this came across on my feed.. some people!!!
1" pvc. They were even smaller when I got them. Its strange but the most success I've had with hippos are when I get them when they are about 1".Those are so tiny!! What size pvc fittings are those?
Why judge others based on your biases?
Oh, and being that today is Veterans Day. Don't forget to go out of your way to thank a Veteran.
Right back at ya. Thank you for your service!Should be every day. Thank you btw.
They'll be in there for awhile, probably until they are at least 2" in about a year. I haven't even started copper yet because they are so small but they are super healthy. I have a 300 that I plan on putting them in when they are big enough because to put them in there now its not a good idea with a really aggressive 8" Achilles Tang terrorizing the rest of the fish.I've struggled with them that small. Probably because I dump them in big tank with full size competition. How long do you keep them in there? Then what?
That sounds perfectly reasonable to me, and I have found myself being critical of this issue in the past.. I do find it very different when someone asks about size compatibility, get told their tank is too small; get it anyways, then come back asking for help when the fish is sick/overly aggressive/ having nutrient problems.. your nickel sized fish have plenty room for now and they already have a 300 waiting for them. I feel like most people have the best intent but go about it wrong. Even a 3" wrasse behaves differently in a 300 vs 180g. I couldn't imagine my 8" Regal in anything less than that 300. He uses every bit of it. Makes you wonder if that is even enoughThey'll be in there for awhile, probably until they are at least 2" in about a year. I haven't even started copper yet because they are so small but they are super healthy. I have a 300 that I plan on putting them in when they are big enough because to put them in there now its not a good idea with a really aggressive 8" Achilles Tang terrorizing the rest of the fish.