If I had the yard for them, I would totally have kids.
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I understand your situation a little bit but if you’ve been with her for 7 years I think that’s already a good sign. Nowadays being married that long is rare. To chime in I understand or I think a lot of people do about bad relationships in the past, but now I’m 32 and my girlfriend has a kid. I never imagined myself being with someone who has a kid cause of the way my parents taught me and how I grew up (conservative christian), but even though I’m not married I can tell you it’s a lot of money and even more time consuming than I imagined. I definitely feel like I don’t have a relationship with my girlfriend anymore it’s all about the kid and sadly I probably have to leave. Off topic but she went through my phone and saw my stock portfolio and now expects me to help her with rent and helping out her whole family. I have my own place, but I’m saying all this because it seems like you have been with someone for 7 years and found a good girl. I think you both have great jobs and maybe later on you might regret not having a kid. Just my humble opinionThis one is going to pretty good.... Little background... im 34 with one daughter that I had at a very young 20 years old. It was a very negative experience and a very brutal time because of issues with my girlfriend at the time. I have been with my now wife who is 33yrs old for going on 7 years now. Ive always said I didn't want anymore kids and was all done and she's been understanding up until recently. Baby fever for his is coming on pretty strong, she wants to be a mother more than anything. So here's the issue I am so torn whether I want to have a family that we are actually a family or just stay just us two and the two dogs.
Being a firefighter I dont make a ton of money, actually I struggle to pay my bills. She's an ER nurse and does make decent money, so there's also the fear of not being financially comfortable. I enjoy just having my time to myself, days off getting up whenever I feel like it, saying screw it and going on a cruise or spending the day riding my dirt bike or street bike. But then there's the other side of me that wants a family, to be a parent to a child that actually has a married not hating each other mom and dad, teach them how to ride motorcycles and play sports and all that fun stuff. Go away as a family.
Thats my dilemma, obviously I wont be making my decision based off of this and its something me and her will have to really think about. Just wanted to hear some of you guys stories and what made you decide, kids or no kids
I’m just saying from my experience then after looking at this guy’s YouTube channel I was like he’s rightSo you think that’s gonna be the case even if she’s not outright bad to me huh. I’d hate the feeling of being 2nd or not even second place.
I had nothing to do with this kid for the first 6-7 years of her life.
Also raised five children. It was difficult at times. Of course it was also expensive. Ultimately it has been more fulfilling than any vacation or fancy car could ever be. And you are right, my grandchildren are also five minutes away. They bring such joy and happiness. There are no words for itWe raised 5 kids thru all the struggles that usually happen with life.
The pot of gold at the end of the rainbow is grandchildren.
I adore my grandkids and am blessed to have 3 of them 5 mins away from us.
They have been the greatest blessing of my life and have taught me more about love and innocence than you can imagine.
I understand my mom has 5 and I couldn’t be more grateful of how she did everything for us. Right now I’m trying to get her a house next to meAlso raised five children. It was difficult at times. Of course it was also expensive. Ultimately it has been more fulfilling than any vacation or fancy car could ever be. And you are right, my grandchildren are also five minutes away. They bring such joy and happiness. There are no words for it
To each their own, i have 4 and would want more... I love kids and only thing that I see that’s real..This one is going to pretty good.... Little background... im 34 with one daughter that I had at a very young 20 years old. It was a very negative experience and a very brutal time because of issues with my girlfriend at the time. I have been with my now wife who is 33yrs old for going on 7 years now. Ive always said I didn't want anymore kids and was all done and she's been understanding up until recently. Baby fever for his is coming on pretty strong, she wants to be a mother more than anything. So here's the issue I am so torn whether I want to have a family that we are actually a family or just stay just us two and the two dogs.
Being a firefighter I dont make a ton of money, actually I struggle to pay my bills. She's an ER nurse and does make decent money, so there's also the fear of not being financially comfortable. I enjoy just having my time to myself, days off getting up whenever I feel like it, saying screw it and going on a cruise or spending the day riding my dirt bike or street bike. But then there's the other side of me that wants a family, to be a parent to a child that actually has a married not hating each other mom and dad, teach them how to ride motorcycles and play sports and all that fun stuff. Go away as a family.
Thats my dilemma, obviously I wont be making my decision based off of this and its something me and her will have to really think about. Just wanted to hear some of you guys stories and what made you decide, kids or no kids
To each their own, i have 4 and would want more... I love kids and only thing that I see that’s real..This one is going to pretty good.... Little background... im 34 with one daughter that I had at a very young 20 years old. It was a very negative experience and a very brutal time because of issues with my girlfriend at the time. I have been with my now wife who is 33yrs old for going on 7 years now. Ive always said I didn't want anymore kids and was all done and she's been understanding up until recently. Baby fever for his is coming on pretty strong, she wants to be a mother more than anything. So here's the issue I am so torn whether I want to have a family that we are actually a family or just stay just us two and the two dogs.
Being a firefighter I dont make a ton of money, actually I struggle to pay my bills. She's an ER nurse and does make decent money, so there's also the fear of not being financially comfortable. I enjoy just having my time to myself, days off getting up whenever I feel like it, saying screw it and going on a cruise or spending the day riding my dirt bike or street bike. But then there's the other side of me that wants a family, to be a parent to a child that actually has a married not hating each other mom and dad, teach them how to ride motorcycles and play sports and all that fun stuff. Go away as a family.
Thats my dilemma, obviously I wont be making my decision based off of this and its something me and her will have to really think about. Just wanted to hear some of you guys stories and what made you decide, kids or no kids
Good to hear, I mean I love my girlfriends kid but the only thing is she hates when I help other kids. I love helping kids but she gets really possessive so it’s hardTo each their own, i have 4 and would want more... I love kids and only thing that I see that’s real..
i have some pretty nice toys and a dream tank, I could really give a crap about... family is everything and only thing that really matters imo.
I understand and it’s situation is different, I’m also not trying to make it all wonderful, there are always crazy moments and money issues. We had life hit us hard and we had day care issues and other but we made it work. Life can truly suck but I think it’s like that for everyone, we just have to not think too much and keepGood to hear, I mean I love my girlfriends kid but the only thing is she hates when I help other kids. I love helping kids but she gets really possessive so it’s hard