I feel bad for the name I drew

[Bryce M.]

I am not going to lie, this winter is not going well
weekend after thanks giving we had the worst local storm since 1991, easily over three feet of snow, had to miss a whole entire week of work, I got in this weekend but right now we are having another storm, might miss this week too, it's not looking good.
So there's less money coming in since I am hourly pay
Plus I was able to get a bunch of zoas for VERY cheap in an auction so I thought why not, they are coming tomorrow but then friday I saw my asternia eating my zoas, they have never done it before and they def are eating it...... been manually removing them, couldn't find a harlequin local so had to spend my tiny storm check on getting one online..... and I'm not making this up.... for the past few days my temp has been going down so I thought it was my room since it was winter but nothing I did was working. Last night I touched my heater, it's dying, it's not dead.... I put it up and I'm watching my temp but I might have to get a new heater
and all of this is happening during christmas! I haven't got a single present yet, I need some for my family, two gift exchanges including the one here (which I wanted to go all out on but that's not happening with the deadline) and I also thought of sending a bunch of small gifts for people but I haven't even been able to buy one yet.....
I don't know why I'm posting this, I'm just frustrated, needed it out
also apologize to people I said I'd buy gifts for I feel horrible about it
I also feel like people are thinking I'm making this up not to spend money, I'm not truly I'm not

 

[Kellie in CA]

Bad things always tend to come in clusters! Don't stress about it. You can always send a note through Elfster explaining your situation and that you will send what you can when things improve. Everyone has been there at some point... I'm sure they will understand.

 

[Bryce M.]

Bad things always tend to come in clusters! Don't stress about it. You can always send a note through Elfster explaining your situation and that you will send what you can when things improve. Everyone has been there at some point... I'm sure they will understand.

Thank you for the support, I'm going through my options right now
(I think I can pull it off)
but the small big issue thing is going to be push back

 

[SandJ]

If I was your person, I would not be upset if you sent a note explaining things have come up and there will be a delay. We all know stuff happens and communication is the key.

I have not sent out the gifts for my person yet. And I would love to draw some reef art for them in addition to purchasing stuff in their wishlist, but time is not allowing right now. So, they may just get a note saying to expect a surprise later (Christmas in July? lol).

 

[Bryce M.]

If I was your person, I would not be upset if you sent a note explaining things have come up and there will be a delay. We all know stuff happens and communication is the key.

I have not sent out the gifts for my person yet. And I would love to draw some reef art for them in addition to purchasing stuff in their wishlist, but time is not allowing right now. So, they may just get a not saying to expect a surprise later (Christmas in July? lol).

I like that, thank you.
I really hope I can give back to the community once all this gets over

 

[Bryce M.]

Phew.
Okay I bought the two big items he wanted and now hopefully I can send out the smaller ones.

 

[Tamberav]

Sorry for all the troubles! I know there feels like a lot of pressure to give extra as many do but I don't think anyone should feel guilty.

My cat just has a big vet bill and I had to give him a stern talk about how he got sick during the holiday season on a weekend when the normal vet was closed which meant a ER visit.

Needless to say I will be working extra in Jan to catch up on bills.

I guess he has it worse though as I would rather eat ramen noodles for the next two weeks then have a shaved butt and a cone on my head.

 

[Florida Sunshine]

I agree, if you had my name I would not be at all upset with a note telling me it was going to be delayed. That is a much better option than stressing yourself out over it.

 

[Dierks]

I also agree, if you have me no worries my man!! A simple note or postcard would make a guy like myself happy! The holidays are about helping others and a simple not can go a very long way!! Take care of yourself and your family then the R2R family when you get a chance!

Happy holidays buddy, no worries!

 

[Bryce M.]

Thank you guys, seriously, these past few days have been stressful, this is exactly what I needed to hear
Like I said I calmed down and was able to get the two big things so I'm happy with that

 

[Dvanlier05]

Agree with the above. Let them know what's up. I think I remember elfster had you put your birthday down, you could do a birthday gift instead.
Idk if you have kids, but handmade ornaments from little ones are always nice. Popsicle Dory or Nemo?

 

[MrWheelock]

I agree with everyone, you are forthcoming about stuff, and thats all that matters. We understand 100%. Life is life, gotta take care of the family, and your tanks immediate needs first. I hope things turn around for you.

 

[Vinman]

I am not going to lie, this winter is not going well
weekend after thanks giving we had the worst local storm since 1991, easily over three feet of snow, had to miss a whole entire week of work, I got in this weekend but right now we are having another storm, might miss this week too, it's not looking good.
So there's less money coming in since I am hourly pay
Plus I was able to get a bunch of zoas for VERY cheap in an auction so I thought why not, they are coming tomorrow but then friday I saw my asternia eating my zoas, they have never done it before and they def are eating it...... been manually removing them, couldn't find a harlequin local so had to spend my tiny storm check on getting one online..... and I'm not making this up.... for the past few days my temp has been going down so I thought it was my room since it was winter but nothing I did was working. Last night I touched my heater, it's dying, it's not dead.... I put it up and I'm watching my temp but I might have to get a new heater
and all of this is happening during christmas! I haven't got a single present yet, I need some for my family, two gift exchanges including the one here (which I wanted to go all out on but that's not happening with the deadline) and I also thought of sending a bunch of small gifts for people but I haven't even been able to buy one yet.....
I don't know why I'm posting this, I'm just frustrated, needed it out
also apologize to people I said I'd buy gifts for I feel horrible about it
I also feel like people are thinking I'm making this up not to spend money, I'm not truly I'm not

Hopefully you drew mine it and I'm fine with nothing Merry Christmas

 

[Bryce M.]

Hopefully you drew mine it and I'm fine with nothing Merry Christmas

it's not you but the person I did draw did reply in here, but I was able to get them some nice things

 

[Katrina71]

@cromag27 Can you help here? I'll make it right with you.

 

[Bryce M.]

@cromag27 Can you help here? I'll make it right with you.

guys guys it's fine! I was able to get what they wanted!

 

[Katrina71]

guys guys it's fine! I was able to get what they wanted!

We all struggle sometimes. You aren't alone here.

 

[Katrina71]

Sorry for all the troubles! I know there feels like a lot of pressure to give extra as many do but I don't think anyone should feel guilty.

My cat just has a big vet bill and I had to give him a stern talk about how he got sick during the holiday season on a weekend when the normal vet was closed which meant a ER visit.

Needless to say I will be working extra in Jan to catch up on bills.

I guess he has it worse though as I would rather eat ramen noodles for the next two weeks then have a shaved butt and a cone on my head.

Beautiful baby!

 

[MrWheelock]

it's not you but the person I did draw did reply in here, but I was able to get them some nice things

Ooooohhhhh already a hint for the reveal?

 

[Peace River]

Sorry for all the troubles! I know there feels like a lot of pressure to give extra as many do but I don't think anyone should feel guilty.

My cat just has a big vet bill and I had to give him a stern talk about how he got sick during the holiday season on a weekend when the normal vet was closed which meant a ER visit.

Needless to say I will be working extra in Jan to catch up on bills.

I guess he has it worse though as I would rather eat ramen noodles for the next two weeks then have a shaved butt and a cone on my head.

I’m sorry about the vet bills, but you have a beautiful cat!