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I will Have to agree sometimes we as hobbyist do miss things that we should put more effort towards. I couldn’t agree more.But sometimes the ones who are dependent on vendors and sponsors should sometimes put the blame on them. They are the ones that are promoting their products, And depending on us as hobbyist to purchase them. We all know that not all products are equal. You sometime get what you pay for and sometimes you don’t.It is what it is...Now don't get mad at me on this one. I've thought about this one for a while, put it on a list, but never posted it because I didn't want it to go off the rails so to speak! But I think we're all adult enough to discuss this topic without it getting personal. So let me preface this with that. Let's keep names, company names, political affiliation, political terms etc. out of this topic please. Ok here we go...
I'm guilty first and foremost. When something goes bad in life that the first reaction is often to look for blame outside of ourselves. Now let's apply that to reefing. Something goes bad, tank crashes, algae takes over, fish dies, whatever it may be, we look to blame. We look to blame the vendor, we look to blame the product, we look to blame the equipment and seldom does it dawn on us that we may be the one to blame. Maybe you went to fast, maybe you didn't buy the right equipment, maybe you didn't acclimate properly, maybe your light settings are terrible, maybe you missed a step, etc! Maybe, maybe, maybe...
WARNING: Before you read the next line, PUT YOUR BIG KID PANTS ON!
Let's talk about this today and hopefully learn to take a look in the mirror before we go blaming others for mistakes that may very well be our own. It's unhealthy to always blame others and live with a victim's mentality. Maybe we can grow from this discussion! So the question is this.
In this hobby are we too quick to blame others, or other things when something goes wrong? What are your thoughts?