They are only "stealerships" if you let them get away with it.
I want a NY dealership so I don't have to deal with any DMV bull. They transfer the plates on the spot and I drive out with nothing left to do.
I've bought from NY dealership before (Bayridge Auto and Nostrand (Kings Group) but you have to be ready to walk out the second they start pulling their bull. If you are "fixed" on the car, they'll cash in on it.
Myself and all my co-workers now shop in NJ and another friend said - forget jersey, go to PA for best deals.