So the cables that used to connect the lights to the controller sell for $20 but it looks like a normal 3.5mm male/male cable used for electronics. Is it the same and would I be able to use something like this instead Amazon.com: iXCC ® 6Ft Male to Male 3.5mm Universal Gold Plated Design Tangle-Free [Tangle-Resistant] Slim Thin Auxiliary Audio Stereo Cable Cord for [All 3.5mm-enabled devices] iPhone, iPad, iPod, Samsaung Galaxy, Samsung Note, Android, Smartphone, ? Thanks!