Such a range of personalities just like people. They seemed very intelligent and personable as far as fish go, so maybe something to that.
A friend and hobbyist who works at the LFS, and whom I trust, unlike many others, had a similar experience to me. He was unsurprised. He recommended sending him to the sump for a while, and try to reintroduce as the 'last fish', well after getting something else. His experience is that a sump tour tends to reset their little fish brains as they are introduced to a new place as low man on the totem pole.
TLDR: these guys are awesome and gorgeous but are all over the spectrum so use caution.