Thank you very much I truly enjoyed reading your response. I have kept a red serpent for about 5 years. He was a great scavenger as I do often broadcast feed I would see it eat krill.While it is a general rule of thumb that most stars with a "spikey" appearance aren't reef safe, it really comes down to the species (there are approximately 2,000 species). Biscuit stars like you see in the picture above are reef safe, however, and actually do feed on algae. There aren't many colorful stars that are easy to maintain for long periods of time due to their food requirements. In their natural environment they feed on biofilm. While every tank does have biofilm, it varies greatly in consistency and it's currently unknown what it is the stars are actually consuming in the biofilm for nutrition so the concern isn't usually finding a reef safe star but finding one that can be maintained without starving within several months. If you are willing to put in the work to feed them regularly though it's my belief from experience that they can be maintained for much longer even in smaller tanks. There are people who have successfully kept stars such as Linckias and Fromias for years in very large tanks without supplemental feedings and although I don't want to attribute their success to only luck, many people have also tried and failed to successfully maintain them in large tanks (likely due to starvation). If you're happy with brittle or serpent stars I'd recommend them since their feeding requirements are much easier to meet.
I don't have a primary source i can recommend due to my location but would recommend that you ask how long the store has had the star you want and aim to buy one that recently arrived since it will likely be healthier.
Lastly, I would HIGHLY recommend researching scientific information regarding the particular species you want before buying since a lot of shops will claim many species simply eat detritus and algae which isn't usually the case.
I ended up giving it to our local LFS when I had to move, very cool to watch. Like most pets they need individual attention and if we’re not willing to put in the work we should probably leave them where they belong.