Well that is certainly good to hear. I was open to the whole quarantine process until they started talking about formaldehyde dips and quarantining the CUC and corals for over two months. Then they started talking about brook and uronema and I thought “what the heck have I got myself into?” The whole video series had a “do these things or your fish will all die” vibe. I’ll check out the thread you mentioned. Thanks again!
I have been keeping fish since I was able to get an aquarium by collecting Blue Chip Stamps from shoppers at the Supermarkets who didn’t want to bother with the clutter and hassle of stamp collecting. (It was a filthy business, getting dirty stamps from the grocery store clerk and then licking the glued side to make them stick inside of the stamp books. I wasn’t shy, so asking strangers if I could have the stamps they didn’t want was fun and rewarding!)
I am not able to stop keeping my reef or fish tanks now, but after 50 years of mucking with aquariums, (I graduated from University with a degree in Wildlife & Fisheries Biology from UC Davis- although technically I didn’t complete the degree requirements- ) my current reef appears to be infected with the coral disease that is rampant in the Caribbean, and that was because I collected sick corals while I was on vacation about 300m from Jeffery Epsteins Island. Recent findings suggest that it’s a strain of vibrio, but the results are that stoney coral fragments have almost zero chance of surviving while some larger colonies are able to develop a successful immune response after much of the colony has withered away.
I need to wipe down the algae that is obstructing the view of my fish tank. I have not found the motivation to do the work of a water change in the last few years. The fish are ok, but they would probably like some new water to swim in?
If you have not already put water in the tank then you should consider that the value of your equipment will drop significantly once it gets wet, so if you are having second thoughts about surviving with fish and coral livestock losses, that aspect of your life needs some serious reflection before you move forward in this hobby.
Keeping anything alive in an artificial environment is a challenge, and for the most part
everything that you buy for an aquarium is likely going to die off eventually, and a large portion of the deaths will likely happen inside of 1-5 years of your purchase. Many hobbyists would argue with this statement of morbidity rates but for the vast majority of new hobbyists that statistic may be overly optimistic.
If you or your wife are sensitive to losses of life for the creatures that are in your care,(?) then I would encourage you to back out of this hobby before you get your tank wet.
This hobby is very demanding of time and money (energy) and for the sake of peace in your household I have posted this stern, but not hostile to anyone post because I am reading your posts about your situation and I don’t know if you are going to enjoy the trials that will come with an aquarium in your life.
I have enjoyed the aquarium experience with times of huge success and with times of great loss of livestock and water damages that I had to (unfairly) pay for. I can’t recommend this hobby for anyone who will suffer unduly when a fish jumps out and dies. They all eventually die.
Don’t let me stop you, but I have tried to put you on a fair alert.