The second question was more for future knowledge. I imagine balancing two Herbies would be very tough. I have one corner overflow, from an Aqueon 2300 pump. My return plumbing is 3/4" and the drain plumbing is 1". With a straight line, the Aqueon pushes juuust enough water to allow water to flow over my top weir, while the rest flows through the bottom weir (picture attached of Marineland cornerflo in case you need visual). The aqueon's flow rate can be adjusted on the pump. When I installed a swing check valve on the pump, it no longer pushes enough water to force over the top weir, thus no surface skimming. This is another problem I have, but I guess I can tackle that one later unless you have any advice there. My aqueon is also pretty loud, so I'm thinking of replacing.
Yes if it had 2 overflows I don't think a Herbie or a Bean will work so its good that you have only 1 overflow. Is there a reason that you even run a check valve on the return? Will your sump not handle all the water if power outage occurs? The only reason I ask is that those swing valves will fail over time if not cleaned out on a regular basis. I don't know anything or have ever ran one of those pumps before but that is weird that installing that valve cuts down on flow that much.....If you are think of replacing I might look at a quiet one or an ehiem as they are both super quiet and very reliable pumps and have used both many times in the past. That is good that the drain is larger sized pvc and the only thing I did different on my set ups in the past with a herbie was that I had a gate valve installed on the siphon drain line instead of a ball valve and a ball valve installed on my return line and no swing check valve. I could dial it in perfectly that way and it worked perfect and was silent and yes over time there will be a slime build-up in the siphon line and a little tweaking might be necessary in the future.
You do have the siphon line running underwater in your sump correct? I forgot to ask that earlier as my siphon line ran underwater almost to the bottom of my sump drain section and emergency drain was cut off so that it was above the water line and I could hear it. Other than that it might just require tweaking a bit as I ran a stronger return pump and then throttled it back some with a ball valve and then was able to play with the gate valve and dial it in with both valves over a few days. Hopefully that was of some help to you and all that I can think of from my old system that had this drain style. I am back to standard durso drains because it is a dual overflow tank.