First off let me say thank you for the feedback and input. I would like to better explain the situation/needs.
I mentioned i have been using Iphones for over 6 years now, I have an Ipad as well. Its safe to say i am an apple fan. However the feedback am looking from people who have owned both operation platforms, playing around with the phone doesn't really count as experience in my opinion. I'm not looking to be sold on either from the fan boys, but i'm interested in hearing real world application and experience. I want to use apple, i've been happy with them for years, but not as of late. I believe they have pretty much been selling the iphone 4 for years now. The 4s, 5, 5s is basically the same to me. I understand the 5 got a little bigger/different hardware, hardware doesnt interest me and growing in length but not width just doesnt appeal to me aesthetically. I'm looking for something to interest me again, apple use to be innovative, fun, and unique, but i don't get that anymore. I use the phone primarly for calls, texting, facebook, and forums. Games on occasion, some internet browsing, some email, but nothing to serious. I have work phone which is for work, and when i'm home im on my ipad. I pretty sold on the switch to the Note 3, I use ATT, and they let you try it for 2 weeks and if your not happy you can exchange for something else. So i think i'll play with droid and see what i think, at the bare minimum I'll have something to entertain me until apple learns some new tricks.