I went through a few emotions reading this thread
So happy you have gone with trying to remove the anemone and pass them on to other reefers.
I do wish i had your problem of a thriving tank.
Hope your ears have stopped burning through all the horrid names i was calling you lol.
Can i ask, seriously, if you are not doing regular water changes, are you dosing which is keeping your system parameters where they need to be.
What are you using as a warning system to show your tank parameters may have shifted.