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Hey guys, I've been having a hard time pairing mandarins and wondering if anyone has experienced something similar.
I have both spotted and blue mandarins, male and female, and I've noticed the same pattern several times. When I first introduce them, they're usually fine for the first few days and sometimes even look like they're pairing up. Then after a few days or a week, one suddenly starts chasing the other pretty aggressively.
With my blue mandarins, I had a male that stayed together with a female for about a week, then suddenly started chasing and nipping her fins. She eventually died, most likely from stress. He then started doing the same thing to another female, so I separated them.
I've seen similar behavior with spotted mandarins too. It's not always the male either. I've had a larger female attack a smaller male before.
Right now I have a larger male spotted mandarin with a slightly smaller female. The female was already established in the tank. First day they were fine and I even saw what looked like some courting behavior, but the next day the female started chasing the male whenever she saw him.
The weird thing is, if I put both of them together in a small isolation box, the aggression completely stops. There's no divider between them, but they don't fight at all. Put them back in the display and eventually the chasing starts again.
I've seen this happen more than once now, so I'm really curious what's going on. Has anyone experienced this with mandarins? How did you successfully get yours to pair?
I have both spotted and blue mandarins, male and female, and I've noticed the same pattern several times. When I first introduce them, they're usually fine for the first few days and sometimes even look like they're pairing up. Then after a few days or a week, one suddenly starts chasing the other pretty aggressively.
With my blue mandarins, I had a male that stayed together with a female for about a week, then suddenly started chasing and nipping her fins. She eventually died, most likely from stress. He then started doing the same thing to another female, so I separated them.
I've seen similar behavior with spotted mandarins too. It's not always the male either. I've had a larger female attack a smaller male before.
Right now I have a larger male spotted mandarin with a slightly smaller female. The female was already established in the tank. First day they were fine and I even saw what looked like some courting behavior, but the next day the female started chasing the male whenever she saw him.
The weird thing is, if I put both of them together in a small isolation box, the aggression completely stops. There's no divider between them, but they don't fight at all. Put them back in the display and eventually the chasing starts again.
I've seen this happen more than once now, so I'm really curious what's going on. Has anyone experienced this with mandarins? How did you successfully get yours to pair?
