Left hanging

[Philly Reefer]

You know what's annoying?
No futher reply on DMs.
Without closure.
I guess it happens lots because you are talking to strangers but still. I would always try close a conversation even with a simple word. "No"

 

[ScottR]

You know what's annoying?
No futher reply on DMs.
Without closure.
I guess it happens lots because you are talking to strangers but still. I would always try close a conversation even with a simple word. "No"

Hey. It happens. If you want you can PM me, I always respond. We’re always happy to help if you need something.

 

[Philly Reefer]

Hey. It happens. If you want you can PM me, I always respond. We’re always happy to help if you need something.

Hey thank you Scott. This just me venting. As you mentioned, it happens.

 

[ScottR]

Hey thank you Scott. This just me venting. As you mentioned, it happens.

No worries. I’m always here to help and if I can’t, I may know someone that can. Whether it be reefing related or not.

 

[Thaxxx]

You know what's annoying?
No futher reply on DMs.
Without closure.
I guess it happens lots because you are talking to strangers but still. I would always try close a conversation even with a simple word. "No"

 

[4tanks]

I think what happens is sometimes so many people get involved with different ideas that people trying to help give up themselves I’m sometimes guilty of this as I think the OP must be getting confused by all the different ideas .if someone seems helpful in a thread more than others maybe worth a pm if your problem doesn’t get resolved

 

[Thaxxx]

Haha kidding.
It happens in DM and the OP of a thread asking for advice.
They ask, and never respond to thread again

 

[Philly Reefer]

I guess I am piffed with the transactional DM in nature. I understand if you have 2nd thought about it. But tell me about it. Don't just ghost me

 

[Thaxxx]

Okay. I'm leaving this thread now. I'm saying goodbye @aior0s
:cool:

 

[Peace River]

@aior0s - I understand. I am regularly reminded that we all have different communication styles and expectations. Interacting on R2R continues to challenge me, stretch me, and make me a better person.


...and @Thaxxx thanks for the closure!

 

[BlennyTime]

Maybe it’s always been this way, but it seems recently like people always want to leave their options open. See it a lot in job applications, seems like getting no response is becoming the norm.

 

[Philly Reefer]

@aior0s - I understand. I am regularly reminded that we all have different communication styles and expectations. Interacting on R2R continues to challenge me, stretch me, and make me a better person.


...and @Thaxxx thanks for the closure!

That what we can strive to be.

Maybe it’s always been this way, but it seems recently like people always want to leave their options open. See it a lot in job applications, seems like getting no response is becoming the norm.

I do see that in job applications. One day you'll get the automated email stating you were not chosen for a job that you applied million years ago.