Miss those days...

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by the way Mark - nice build you have going for you. Hope your tank comes soon and we can see it do wonders.
 
great picture in the first post.

My guys are now adults and never really got into the aquariums - who knows what will happen when they settle down. I vividly remember when my dad set up the first guppy tank way way back late sixties/early seventies. A co-worker of my dad's was being transferred to London and my Dad took me to pick up the tank. Gosh, the excitement as my sisters and I watched those first guppy fry being born. I don't recall if it was my asking, but we set up a 5 gallon tank in my bedroom to raise those new born guppies. He's 89 now and a shadow of himself (massive strokes 20 years ago) - I'll see him next week, i think i will make a slide show of my tank and talk to him about my memories those first guppies.

Mom had a Beta as a young lass, before she met dad, and would tell us about how she would make a circle with her fingers and the bata would swim through her make shift circus hoop. During my days in the banking industry always kept a beta in a bowl in my office.

don't push the kids too hard to share your interest. They are their own persons with their own interest, plus you never know how those memories will manifest them long after the footsie pajama days.
 
Man - thanks for your post Mike... even though we are just starting out as a family - i really connected with the rich history you have with yours.
Definitely dont support forcing kids to get involved in our hobbies - thats why i believe those who GET that - are lucky.
 
So I’ve been lurking this thread and thought I really couldn’t comment. Well I can. Just as the other side. Me being 18, can remember coming home with my first tank, 29g, and being so excited. Me and my dad always would sit infront of the tank and just watch the fish. When he got his first SW tank in 2010 I was glued to reading the books and learning as much as possible. Well, little over a year and 1/2 ago, we moved that tank to my bedroom, where it got a large facelift and where I reside most days. Every once in a while we will sit and just talk while admiring the tank, but not like we used to. As he slowly leaves the hobby of fish, I emerge deeper into it. The salty world has me. I really do miss those days.

Side note. I came across this picture and thought of this thread. IMG_0824.jpg
 
Dang Zack. That note hit me hard. Made me miss my buds.

I can only hope my boys remember me as you do your dad. Although I don’t plan to ever leave the hobby. Lol.
 
Dang Zack. That note hit me hard. Made me miss my buds.

I can only hope my boys remember me as you do your dad. Although I don’t plan to ever leave the hobby. Lol.

Unfortunately nether did he. But life gets in the way. He went from 12 Tanks to 3. And 2 of them are for each kid. His only tank is a 220 Fresh.

Yea that note is a hard hitter.

-Zack
 
Our sons were toddlers last time we had our FOWLR tank setup, and I still remember the excitement when we let them choose fish at our LFS.

They’re both high school varsity athletes and scholars now. So we just cycled our first build this past holiday season, since they were babies, and I practically fell on the floor of our LFS last weekend. I watched our two boys squealing like four-year-olds as they selected the Dory and Nemo and other stereotypical first batch of marine fish and inverts.

I’m thinking it kinda really is a forever thing!
 
haha... thats awesome...

i cant wait for the next build to get my 2 year old to come to the LFS with me and see his reaction to nemos and dorys.
 
This was so precious. I’m actually wanting to set a tank up right now for the kids. My son loved it but I had to take it down when he was 2.5. He is now turning 6, my daughter is turning 2.

I hope you’re able to get one back up, soon. It’s so important to have things like this to bond with your children.
 
Thanks for you well wishes Emily. And I couldn’t agree more.

I am super excited to get back in as well. As soon as the dust settles on work - I am jumping in. Thanks again and best of luck with your tank as well. Hope you are back in the game soon
 

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