Some people have driven millions of miles not wearing a seatbelt and never been injured and have no worries whatsoever. You can't conclude that cars are safe from that fact.
Your particular specimens may not actually have the toxin at all. You can't know that unless you do have a reaction or you have them sent off for testing.
My issue here (and in all of these threads) is people using anecdote to assuage valid concern and fear. You and others that keep saying "don't worry, it will be okay" are basically telling people who are playing Russian Roulette to not worry, because you did it and lived.
Palytoxin is one of the deadliest most concentrated (if not outright) neurotoxins on the planet. Not all specimens have it. The problem is that we don't know which ones actually do or don't and as much as we want to trust visible identification to guide us, we can't.
So therefore, the advice is to treat them all as if they were extremely deadly and take appropriate precautions. I have them in my tank, and try as I might, can't get rid of them. My "precaution" would bit be PPE. It would be to not have them. That ship sailed.
So - they very least we can do, given that they are a big part of this hobby, is responsibly make people aware, if not over emphasize the dangers. Anything less is irresponsible.
If you or anybody disagrees, so be it. I will stand pat in this, given facts at hand.