What is a drain that you would use? Im open to all opinions since i have no experience with any of them
I did not mean to come across snarky or mean - sorry if I did.
I feel the answer is a bit of a personal opinion and/or biase. I've used both a Durso and currently a Bean Animal overflow. I have found that the Bean Animal is the safest and most quiet when setup properly. Not all tanks come pre-drilled to support either so one may not have a option to install it.
The reason for my personal preference is that I found the Durso to generate more noise and needed more frequent cleaning. Had gurgling noise. That could be due to my installation or not, not really sure. With my current display I moved over to the BA design and have been happy. In fact so much that I'll be running another one on the upgrade.
I do not like a single overflow, or drain, for a few reasons and why I mentioned safety.
There is no backup. Durso and Bean Animal has a secondary or even a third draid that will be used in the case of an emergency.
Emergency can be blockage due to debris, animal such as a snail, internal build up such as vermetid snails, aiptasia and so forth.
Teeth - the overflow box has teeth which restrict flow. If one of those slots / teeth gets blocked x percent reduction in flow happens. If 2 teeth, or 3 happen you now lost more. This is somewhat related to the overflow, any overflow even Durso and BA, but mentioned it as it should be mentioned. Water from display to overflow to sump is a critical path in my opinion.
TL; DR - short answer is that it is a single point of failure. Sort of like trying to fly a single engine aircraft over the Atlantic. If it fails, well, you are in trouble.
Note: Durso - 2 stand pipes, primary, secondary.
Note: Bean Animal - 3 stand pipes. Primary, secondary, and emergency