Here is a copy of what I wrote in the centerpiece fish thread, since it seems this discussion kind of branched off.
We are kind of split between two threads now, I will try to answer both here, assuming it is all about the same tank. You are 100% free to do whatever you want. Many people have had success getting juvenile fish and re-homing. Heck, if you have already made up your mind that this is what you are going to do, there is nothing anyone on this forum can do to stop you, and that is the beauty of being able to make your own decisions.
That being said, I think most people on this forum are suggesting looking at a reef from a different perspective. When I first started, like you, I loved the idea of one big show fish, something that is the centerpiece of the tank. Now, in my 30 long, I have shifted my thinking into having more fish, but smaller. I actually love this approach much more, everything in the tank looks more proportional, actively swims, and I do not have to worry about stressing the fish with too small of a tank, or rehoming a pet that I become attached to.
Either way, don't feel like anyone is attacking you, tone is easily lost over posted forum threads. We all wish you the best of luck with whatever route you go, and we all hope that you have found our advice useful. Let us know if we can ever be of assistance with other issues or decisions you run in to.
We are kind of split between two threads now, I will try to answer both here, assuming it is all about the same tank. You are 100% free to do whatever you want. Many people have had success getting juvenile fish and re-homing. Heck, if you have already made up your mind that this is what you are going to do, there is nothing anyone on this forum can do to stop you, and that is the beauty of being able to make your own decisions.
That being said, I think most people on this forum are suggesting looking at a reef from a different perspective. When I first started, like you, I loved the idea of one big show fish, something that is the centerpiece of the tank. Now, in my 30 long, I have shifted my thinking into having more fish, but smaller. I actually love this approach much more, everything in the tank looks more proportional, actively swims, and I do not have to worry about stressing the fish with too small of a tank, or rehoming a pet that I become attached to.
Either way, don't feel like anyone is attacking you, tone is easily lost over posted forum threads. We all wish you the best of luck with whatever route you go, and we all hope that you have found our advice useful. Let us know if we can ever be of assistance with other issues or decisions you run in to.
