Somewhere on this sight are links to a research paper where they measured palytoxin concentrations across species. Again, they were (almost) all paly, not zoanthids (although the species delineations are fluid).
I am in charge of dinner so leave it to you with access to google to find the paper.
As to the reference that only aerosolization causes problems with palytoxin, that is completely inaccurate. Maybe that is how one could die, but it is far easier to get sick if you come across the rare species you should not molest.