Ty again everyone. Just wanted to share how it's been a huge stress on us and both very worried and down about it all. I've been lifted by everyone here it's amazing the wife has been slowly feeling like there's hope again. Then last night she was heading to work and with a beaming smile said please give me updates while I'm working this is beautiful and I'm going now before I cry. It's so beautiful to see her smile and feel more positive again. I can't express how sweet it was.