Sure. It looks like us experienced reefers are questioning the OPs pathway to their success. If we didn't sense a flaw in the logic we would never have even brought it up. IME, a normal to high nutrient mixed reef is much easier to grow out than one where the inhabitants are just getting by. And I also agree that one can maintain a reef without a skimmer, those reefs are certainly not zero nutrient tanks though. A skimmer provides so many benefits I just can't find any reason to not want to use one. The oxygenation alone is worth it, that drives up the orp and increases the pH by promoting gas exchange which in turn increases general water quality. Collecting disolved waste in the water is almost a secondary benefit.
On several occasions I've tried to lower the nutrients in my tank and had corals turn white and die, zoanthids lose color and stop opening up, goniopora stop extending their arms and eventually rtn away etc. It just doesn't work well, at least I haven't found it to work well. My current tank only took off after I stopped trying to maintain N and P at very low levels because thats what "everyone" was recommending at the moment. It seems that as of late, letting those levels elevate does have some positive benefits, I have witnessed it myself in my own tank.
We're just trying to help steer someone in the right direction