Guys, sorry for the slow response...again. The forum didn't flag this post, so I literally skipped right over this at least 50 times. Woops.
This said, thank you all for the insights so far.
I am on board with waiting, I saw the term patience used so many times that I remember how to spell it now while researching this hobby. My wife wants one yesterday, but I made it very clear it will be quite a while before we try it out. On that, I have no intention of letting her help me pick it out, since the easiest one to care for is probably not the prettiest also, lol.
I see you guys mentioning it not being happy, so any insight on what they are happy with? LOL, kind of loaded question, I know. I have 2 Koraline 3's in my tank, both are towards the top angled down. The light I have is fluorescent, I'm at work so can't remember type, but its a fixture with 2 actinic and 2 regular, 12k I think.
Thank you for the link.
Anyone have some pictures?