Welcome! Glad you joined. Going to defer to others as not familiar personally with any of those four, so I'm also unable to vote.
Have you considered starting your build thread? I found its a great place to document my tank's evolution for myself. I started tank first then joined, so I'm still finding myself going back collecting pictures & updating historically as well as current state. Once you create your first post in your thread and link it to your account, they will give you build badge (look left, under my ID). You might consider doing one for current tank if you are keeping it going and then do one for your tank you are planning, though you will only get 1 badge even if you do two threads over in Forum > Members Aquariums.
This might help you find people local to you in Cincinnati:
https://www.reef2reef.com/forums/local-reef-club-discussion.516/
This is a good reference book type online article I still review:
https://www.reef2reef.com/ams/the-supreme-guide-to-setting-up-a-saltwater-reef-aquarium.84/