i also agree, its like that here too. although i see it from a slightly different perspective.
recently, our local club put on a huge reef frag sale this past december. in which me and 2 other people donated a TON of nice LE zoas/lps/sps. and for $20/raffle ticket, which guaranteed you to pick 1 frag. so lots of people got ridiculously nice corals for $20/each (oregon tort, sunset monti, rainbow aussie acans, duncans, purple deaths etc.), and after that for a couple of months it seemed like allot of people expected us to sell these really nice corals for around $20/each whenever they asked.
now, to me its not really about trying to recoup the money i paid for them, as i'm not in the hobby for the money. i believe more so about being fair to all the people who buy from me locally so they are all getting the same cheap deal. i will normally charge just under market value if i sell online, and about half of market value to locals. but sometimes thats obviously not good enough if you've already spoiled them once.
but to me, the thing that grinds my gears the most is that people seem to think regardless of the money, that we should just give up frags of these corals at every meet once our "colony" has grown past the 1" mark. they have no idea the great lengths it took to even find this coral available, b/c for me.......i don't purchase from those big expensive online stores. all of my corals have come from other hobbyists, and i have done all the leg work to track down those corals and arrange the shipping or the trade to get them.
and believe me, the trading part is ALLOT of work, and it still costs allot of money to ship things across country. so IMO i feel that at least when i sell some of these awesome frags locally, the great lengths i've gone to find them have gone very under appreciated.
i have worked my way up over several years in order to have such nice corals to be able to trade for other insanely nice corals. and it seems allot of people don't understand if you want to be able to do this, you gotta buy into the game with some sort of expensive coral to start out with. they just don't fall in your lap for free.
if you want to be able to trade for nice corals, you gota have nice corals to begin with.
ok....rant over. :)