Need a little advice please

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ok he emailed me back....what do you think?

Hi Joe, thank you for your response. First of all, there is no doubt in my mind be that I will be getting my money back and it’s not up to anyone on any forum on how much money I should get back, I spent 830 dollars and received dying, dead and broken coral, much of which was not as tall as you stated, sometimes the difference was as great as a few inches, and as you know, in the coral business people pay hundreds of dollars for frags that are an inch or less, so inches do matter. The matter is very clear, I should receive compensation for each individual piece that was broke or was dead or dying.

In your response you asked me a couple of specific questions:

Was the water warm? Yes

Was the coral alive when I received it? Partially, it was in the process of dying, the corals smelled like rotten death. I told this to you from the first email. The smell on them was horrible. The light was off until hours after they were put into the tank so I could not get a good look at them, but I saw the skeleton of the scolymia showing around the edges when I acclimated it. And the corals that had broken were rotting on the tips.

Did I say you packaged the corals well and that there were no leaks? No. I did say that your packing was very meticulous and well done. It was keeping with the standards of other corals I have received in the mail. You had a foam box, peanuts, double bagged the coral, labeled them, put black tape around the bags so as to keep the coral from being traumatized by a change in light, but I never said there was no leaking, because, in fact, there was. I was outside washing my car when Fedex pulled up, the lady handed me the box and she and I noted how wet the bottom was. When I opened the box, and was acclimating the corals, I guess I forgot all about this, but they had gotten so wet that they were gummy, I remember thinking, ‘I never new that packing peanuts could turn into slime.’


Did I say that the corals were stressed and not dead when I put them into water? Being dead is a final point in a lifespan, a living thing does not die with out going through a process of dying. Was the coral at the final point of being dead on arrival, no, was the coral dying when I received it, yes.

You said in your response that you “apologize if this is your first SPS experience but stressed sps need to be acclimated a lot different than lps.” Of course, besides blaming the victim by telling me that what happened was my fault and that I didn’t know what I was doing, you also made the false assumption that this is my first SPS, which it is not, I have a big colony that I bought from bluezoo for 150.00, and that is doing just fine.

When addressing the fact that most of the corals broke during shipping, you said that I should have glued them to the mother colony. But this misses the point that the corals, the mother colonies, where dying. I had only a few hours before the crabs were eating the dying tissue.

So in conclusion Joe, I don’t wish anything bad to you, I don’t think that you intended for me to receive dying corals. But I did. I am the victim, the person out 830 dollars and with nothing. You have insulted and blamed me by making an assumption that I did not know what I was doing. Your assumption is wrong. The coral business is not a world unto itself. You, the seller, are not absolved of any responsibility when discussing responsibility for corals that arrive dying. It is not a risk that the buyer takes and is then completely responsible whatever the outcome is. I was very fair, and looking back on it, to fair, when I said I would accept 350 and you can keep the other 480. What I deserve is my money for each individual piece that broke and died and I still have all the dead corals in a covered bucket. The smell is horrible, they are rotting and decaying, having been sitting there for a few days, but you know what is funny, or kind of sad really, but the smell is the same smell that I smelled when I first opened the box.
 
Well, I got a shipment today and every single individually bagged coral smelled like butt. That alone does not mean the corals were "dying" or "dead". Obviously the buyer is not a R2R member or he would be more educated.
 
Sometimes I fart in the bag before I tie it up. Depends who I am sending it to.
 
So if he knows the difference between an alive coral and a dead or dying one, why in this amazing world would he put it in his tank. This to me, makes no sense. Sometimes people just need to be whacked in the head with a Tack hammer.

I understand they guy being upset because of the loss. But like stated earlier, I do not know of any supplier of coral or livestock who would refund him any money.

This is a learning experience for all of us. I will def. have a disclosure anytime I ship corals from now on.
 
Man I wouldn't give him anything but a swift kick in the ###... how exactly does he plan on getting his money back??? It's him against us!!!! We got your back!!!!;)
 
An experienced reefer would not place dying SPS into their display tank..... As someone already stated, the tank looks really new and fresh. After seeing the photos the first thought that came to my mind is that the buyer fresh water dipped the SPS. I have seen it done before with the same results. The SPS will start to die from the base up and at a very fast pace.
 
Joe, With my experience buying and selling coral. I agree with what has been said.
If the corals do not come in take pics while they are in the bag. I think once he put them in his tank it became his problem. I have coral that I frag and man can it stink just from being out of the water. Sometimes we deal with buyers that we just cannot please. Ones that claim to know everything about everything. But in fact are nothing more than arrogant individuals that think everyone should do what they ask. When buying coral I think its pretty much understood that you check it out before you put it in your tank. He started dipping it and stressing it out even more after he got it. . I would stick to your guns. Water warm.. Check.... coral in water .... check. ITs common to have large SPS pieces break a little piece off here and there. He could of glued them to a plug and had frags right off the bat.
Good luck but I think you are ok and the lesson learned will be more on the buyers end hear. If he wanted a refund he should of taken pictures of the coral in the bags and sent them to you right away. then waited for a response on what to do next.

Just my 2 cents

Mojo~
 
I agree with all being said. I think the buyer should have taken pics and contacted or tried to contact you within the first hour of receiving them. If the buyer suspected any problems with the corals. And if they were smelling horrible there should have been tissue loss on arrival. No experienced reef keeper would ever risk putting sps in their tank if there was tissue loss/ RTN.
I hope you get things worked out on it. Next time you sell and plan to ship make sure to post alive arrive guarantee 1 hour after arrival and that pics would be needed for any refunds on DOA's. That way you are not held responsible for any losses after that hour.

I'm sorry to hear about the loss. It's always painfull to see corals (colony's) that are lost that were grown from frags. I think most of us can relate to that. Good Luck
 
thanks everyone....I agree I think this guy dosen't know the difference between "rotten" corals and the smell of acropora....when I get a big shipment of acros in my wife won't even come downstairs! of course Im use to it!
 
That table acro looks great, wish you would have sent it here, I have a feeling it would still be alive if you did. I feel sorry for the buyer but you can clearly see that his tank is so very young. I know we all had young tanks at one time & got a little to eager to load them up with goodies. I myself did a run to Portland Oregon & loaded up on more than $2,000.00 of across from very reputable shops. Within a week I lost 95%. Were they bad or weak corals? Nope. I was to blame for the loss. Through trial & error & a lot a reading I have learned how to care for these creatures. What I realize more & more every day is that a reef tank can be unpredictable to say the least. Especially sps. Just when you think things are perfect something pops up forcing a guy to read even more to figure out what is happening this time & how can it be controlled. Sorry to the both of you guys.
 
taht guy is just an a hole.... trying to get back money for his own stupidity ....

let him keep smelling the bucket, he might enjoy it before its done
 
i admit that when i started getting into sps, and they arrived alive, i lost a few due to my inexperience with them, and wish i took longer in researching their acclimation procedures and needs. though they didnt make it i never tried to coax the seller that it was on his behalf. he should just have emailed you the pics in the bags or atleast the "in tank" pics alot sooner. i agree that its the buyers fault.
 

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