Back from my trip he did not have IRLB8721 but he did have IRLZ44N which appear to be even better, looks like it can be controlled via 5v if I read the spec sheet correctly and is rated for 55amps. He did not have anything else lower that he thought would work, the only downside was they were $3ea. Here is the data sheet -
https://www.infineon.com/dgdl/irlz44npbf.pdf?fileId=5546d462533600a40153567217c32725
For the heck of it I decided to put a killawatt meter on the lights and see what they registered, the tech sheets indicated @12v they would pull 33w for the large unit and 12w for the small unit. The large unit pulled 29w and the small unit pulled 12w, both together pulled 42w and when I switched to amps on the meter it was only showing it pulling .5amp combined at there highest setting. I think the .5amp is based on 110v which is what it sees from the wall then it goes through the transformers to step down to 12v, so I think my calculations are correct that @12v it will be around 3.5amps at the highest setting.
I think these should work now just need to put it together and figure out the layout. I was going to pull the 12v from the hat board, from what I can read 22awg should be good for 7amps, is there any concern about doing that?
Thanks :)