The best solution would be to convert the Durso to a Herbie by making the current return a full siphon drain and running the return over the top rim of the tank. If you stay with the single Durso, you will probably have to further reduce the return flow with a gate valve on the return line until it gets acceptably quiet for your ears. The noise is coming from air being drawn into the drain line through the siphon break hole at the top of the Durso and creating air/water turbulence inside the drainpipe. The water flow has to be low enough so that entrained air can easily separate from the water and escape back up through the drain against the water flow.