If you are local to me, I would be happy to swing by and help you out! When I first started, I lost some expensive fish. My second reef looked like a brown shag carpet over every surface. 3 years into it and now I have 7 happy reefs. I think a lot of my issues were thinking my nitrates and phosphates had to be zero. Lots of fish, lots of food for those fish, and a lot of skimming.
Cheers! Mark
yeah too bad i dont have someone that can come over and take a look. I feel like im flying blind here lol.