Just to make sure ...
PH 7.2 (buffered tonight)
Don't do that in a reef tank. Buffer spikes Alk and this is most likely the issue. Unless you have a calibrated PH probe stop looking at PH and throw any kits away so you're not tempted to use them again. Also throw any buffer away, these are deadly in reef tanks. The answer to low PH would be to run a skimmer line outside or through a CO2 scrubber but never adding a buffer. :)
As far as everything else goes I think you are on the right track. Be concerned about the high KH salts, raise Salinity to 35 (1.026) but not too fast.
Personally I would slowly lower KH down to the 7 - 8 range just because, in my experience, acros do better at the more natural KH levels when nutrients are on the low side.
One more thing ... your knowledge of reef tanks is probably greater than your LFS. Not to slag on the store but it's usually better to get advice from more experienced reefers than a LFS.
Almost exactly what I was about to say. I'm guessing your Red Sea salt is the Coral Pro version. This salt mixes to a dKH of about 12 and is on the high end of the recommended level. There are other similarly priced salts like Fritz Pro and HW Marinemix that offer similar benefits with lower dKH. I have low nutrients in my tank and I have issues similar to your pictures if my dKH is above 9.0. It would still be beneficial to know your nitrate and phosphate parameters before we blame alk, but it is a likely suspect.
