I am a new reefer this year, so take this all with a grain of salt, but fwiw:
My goni frags really started to do well when I achieved random, turbulent flow. Polyps sway back and forth gently, not as if they are in a wind storm. PAR is at 120-130. I keep my Salinity per Tropic Marin glass hydrometer at specific gravity 1.0265 with no goni problems. I think recommendations for lower salt are based on hydrometer error potential and/or evaporation potential. I keep my tank covered to limit evaporation and top off with RO/DI diligently (I do not have ATO on my 36 gal.)
So far for me the keys to my gonis have been (1) gentle, chatotic turbulence, (2) lighting (3) above all, stability of (1) & (2), and (4) target feeding 2x/week with fine powdery plankton-based foods (sized for SPS), mixed with a little tank water and let stand for 10 min to rehydrate, then add a little amino acids, mix and gently target from 3-4 inches away with all flow off while feeding and for 20 minutes afterward. Don't blast! If the polyps retract quickly while feeding, go even slower. With gonis, notable retraction is more of a defensive reflex than a feeding response. You probably aren't going to feed them yet, per se (due to their retracted state), but you may want to dose a little amino acids (broadcast) meanwhile to whet their appetite.
If you could post a short video of the gonis to show the flow, that would be helpful.
Also, were your gonis frags mounted to a rock, or wild collected? It apparently makes a difference in survivability, with frags performing better typically.
A final note on hermit crabs: they are reckless. When they trample my gonis, the corals pout (retract tightly). Sometimes for the rest of the day. You may want to get up well after lights-out to see if the gonis are in a high-traffic area for any of your nocturnal livestock.