Is this rude ?

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I just had a daughter. She’s six months old. This thread is a solid example of precisely why I will strive to prepare her for the real world in the coming years.#imoffended
 
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A business person would probably be better served using a less judgemental term.
 
I don't think it's rude. Remember you get what you pay for. A $10 dollar frag is a $10 dollar frag.
 
No, it wasn't any more offensive than your screen name.
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And this
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No, it wasn't any more offensive than your screen name.
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And this
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How DARE you say that " he is definitely not a nice guy". And the screen name of 2kool4u. I agree I am an offended beyond anyones beliefe except for the constantly offended PC kids these days.
 
How DARE you say that " he is definitely not a nice guy". And the screen name of 2kool4u. I agree I am an offended beyond anyones beliefe except for the constantly offended PC kids these days.

Whoa whoa whoa !! 2kool4u obviously means he has 2 cigarettes for u. The brand kool. Not that he’s 2 cool for anyone. Duh guys duh [emoji849]
 
Everyone making references to the younger generation's default response of, easily offended, could not be more wrong. If you truly understood the root of this discussion, you would see that context is important. @Erica-Renee 's point I think is the most relevant.

From a customer service stand point, how the vendor used the word cheap could be considered unintentionally condescending. Regardless, an unintentionally condescending statement is still condescending.

Completely separate from OP. If I asked a vendor if they carried $10 frags, and got the response "I don't do cheap stuff," I would probably ask him if he was some kind elitist or something, and then say what do you mean you don't do cheap stuff, your selling a $25 richordea. I'd only do this because his response made me mad.

Adversely, if the vendor replied "I don't have anything under $25" or "I don't have anything that cheap," I would have just said ok, because that is a straight forward and honest answer. I worked at an LFS for 2 years, and if I told a customer we "don't do any cheap stuff", my boss (the store owner) would have told me to change my wording, as my statement could unintentionally put down a customer.

Arguments that suggest this instance is a case of people being overly offended are wrong. I think this vendor needs to work on customer service skills.

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The suggestion that millennials are soft is a cop out response. Anyone who suggested this missed the purpose of the discussion. It is more than ok to disagree, but adding points that contain no substance only serve as a beacon of misguidance. The purpose of a question is to find an answer, although OP's question likely has no true answer, a debate should not be discouraged.
 
I thought we were debating this....that is why a post that should only have had one answer now has 4 pages of answers and debating. ;)
 
I need threads like these sometimes, thank you OP and thank you to the OPs in the other threads about online sales :-)

I feel good after a good scotch and a rant.
 
I wouldn't call it rude but he didn't handle it great. I am not sure if he is running a small business or just selling things from his tank but his response was very cut and dry. Instead, they could've been like, 'no I don't have any $10 frags but this is what I do have available'. You know kept the talk going, giving the person buying options, instead of having the consumer guess what they have for sale. I don't know just my opinion.

I understand, but I can tell you this -- I don't have anything even remotely near $10 corals. If anybody is asking me for $10 corals, they're about $65 shy of more than a polite "nope, sorry".

But Why?

When you're selling you get FLOODED with calls, texts, emails, PM's usually. Most the time, if someone asks if I have $10 stuff I just say "I only have high end stuff available", because that dryly shuts the door and finishes the conversation. The last thing I want is some dude texting me "PLEASSEEE", and asking "how many <insert worthless zoa here> I'll trade for my <Insert very valuable thing here>." No amount of eagle eyes is gonna get you a homewrecker dude, sorry.

Someone asking for $10 corals is usually a red flag in my experience. Wish it weren't the case, but it is.
 

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