I doubt many sellers ever get into the hobby to sell their coral. I had no idea there was even a 'hobby'
market until I got into it reefing. Now, two years later, I'm in a position w/ my tank where I'll start to need to get rid of some coral, and personally, I'd rather give them away or trade to local reefing friends than even deal with the headaches of selling through a forum.
Point is, we're mostly not businesses who can absorb those kinds of losses to offer full refunds, and I'm aware of the reality of circumstances beyond the control of both parties in a selling/buying situation, so if I purchase in the grey
market coral channel I'd expect to assume some of the liability when it's clearly neither parties fault.
I understand the position that delayed shipments pose on both seller and buyer, however awareness and responsibility would seem to be on both sides in most hobby purchase situations.
If I purchased from a seller who is in the industry for profit and has a legitimate business set up then I would expect them to assume the shipping liability.
The reality is in our hobby that we're dealing with some of the most expensive living animals in a trade
market, (ironically inflated by our desire for rarities, among other factors) and a large number of these animals are sold by hobbiests, and then we ship them with our fingers crossed hoping to NOT get that follow up email stating a DOA arrival.