I was at the point you were at when I came to the same conclusion. I went from 40 or 50 to zero over the course of a few months by doing a variety of different things. When I finally got down to undetectable or near undetectable for a period of time my softies especially started to look worse. As I backed off it was interesting to notice how some corals looked better with lower nutrients and some looked worse. I found a balance around 5. I don't feed much and only use coral food once a week. Seems to be working well.
Yup. My euphylia coral are always half out. They used to be all plumb and fully extended swaying in the current when my system was newer and now they look dull. I change their positions weekly hoping they find a comfy spot again.
