Beth. if you go on a Windstar cruise, you will never travel any other way. We have gone on 5 or 6 of those Mega cruise ships with 5,000 people and the last time we did that I was praying for a torpedo to sink us, that's how much I hated it. The first time I went I thought it was great, but I was young and didn't know about much cooler places far away from tourists. Tourists are great, but I don't want to vacation on top of 5,000 of them.
When our Windstar docked in Tahiti, 6 people got off. 6. I want to see 6 people not 5,000.
On the Windstar you eat breakfast on the deck so you can see the water and scenery. Try to see the water on a Mega Ship or eat outside on deck.
We also took that ship to the Caribbean to Islands like Bequa, Il deSaints and Nevis. Yes, I never heard of them either and neither did those Mega cruise ships.
On one of those Islands, I forget which one, my wife and I walked to the other side of the Island (in probably 25 minutes) We came across this fantastic lagoon about a mile or less across. It was shallow and there was a small totally un inhabited "Island" in the middle of it. No footprints on the beach except for the occasional iguana or goat. It was like Eden. Just palm trees. We spent the day there then walked back, and on another small Island found a bar in a very shallow lagoon where trees overhung the water and they had seats suspended from the trees so you were half in the sea.
Very few tourists there, maybe 5 or 6 very interesting, friendly people.
Compare that to a Mega ship where 5,0000 Jibonies are engaged in a beer belly contest or hot dog eating contest while guzzling cheap beer then go to the midnight buffet where you can gain 10lbs while gorging yourself on cake.
Don't get me wrong, when I was 20 I liked that. But as I "matured" and realized there were much better places, we took advantage of them. The world is small now and those places are exceedingly harder to find and much more costly but I would rather take one really great trip then two or three mediocre trips with half the population of Bayone New Jersey coming along.
Recently, now that we are "older" we went to a riverboat cruise in Europe on the Blue Danube. I didn't want to go but my wife convinced me. I totally loved it but it was a much different trip than I thought it would be.
The ship is a long skinny ship because it is on a not very wide river. The top deck is flat with lounge chairs and blankets. You lay there as castles, cathedrals, opera houses and wineries pass by. The ship stops in these little towns like I have under my Christmas tree and you can get off and take a bicycle to the next town to meet the ship, they even pack a lunch for you.
WE took a small helicopter when ever we could over antique castles and mountains. Helicopters are not a cheap ride but if you are going on a very good vacation, save another $400.00 for a chopper ride as it is well worth it.
I flew in a helicopter almost every day in Viet Nam but once I wanted to take my wife and daughter around Manhattan in one. So we went to the Heliport in Midtown to get on one. I asked how much. He told me and I said "I think you mis-understood me" I don't want to buy the thing, I just want to ride in it for 20 minutes. I also said, Look, I am a New Yorker, first you have to take care of me and my family, then worry about the tourists.
He said if you take care of me, I will take care of you. I gave him 20 bucks and the ride was cut in half which was manageable.
WE walked to the chopper and was stopped by a worker there because Tom Cruise and Nicole or Natalie (I forgot her name, she was in Batman, but she is a Supermodel) wanted to take that ride. Like what am I, chopped liver! He isn't even a "Veteran".
Anyway, I have been to places I can't pronounce and I am glad I was lucky enough to get the opportunity to get to those places. When we got married I was bringing home about $60.00 a week so saving for a vacation was hard and I had to do side jobs like fixing cars, electrical, cement and plumbing work. But we always managed to get some place. :D