Hey all! 5 years later and I know what the issue was.
Long story short, i gave up and threw it in a box. Moved and promptly forgot about it.
While re setting up my reef room i found it and figuered I'd give it a go one last time.
I let it sit in hot water for about 30 minutes, and tried to run it.
IT FINALLY MOVED. .....for 2 seconds.
Rinse, reheat, and let it sit 3 more times and it finally got going.
Not really a fix, maybe it was the years of sitting, maybe it was the hot water baths, maybe it was the final threat of going to the trash. Whatever it is the problem was fixed ! So, if you've cleaned it, gotten a new controller and tried your hardest to get it going... plop it in hot water for a while, rinse, repeat and see if that works !