I have felt that way alot with this upgrade. Next month will be a year it's been up and I am finally at peace with it. I spent way too much money on it to give up. Dinos were the last straw but I made it through.
Maybe just don't upgrade till you get settled at the new place and happy with things there. Focus on this tank being the only tank and forget a out the upgrade.
Also if it matters I have been "reported" more times then I can count. I think there is a random group out there that has a game of it seeing how many they can get removed.
Sorry I know you didn't ask for my opinion but you got it anyway.