The buffer shouldn't stop the rock from leeching. Leeching, or diffusion, is based on a concentration gradient. Whatever the compound is that is leaching out, which increases the pH of the water as it does so, will continue to do so until the concentration in the water matches, or exceeds through some other external addition of the compound, the concentration in the concrete. This is why you have to keep changing the water during 'kuring' and why I maintain RO/DI water is better than tap water for the process.
Im going to call it the "stuff" that leeches out of the concrete during kuring, and thereby increases the pH of the water being used.
Diffusion: the RO/DI water is pH of 7, neutral. The concrete "stuff" is higher pH. As the "stuff" leaches out of the concrete, it increases the pH of the water, thus lowering the driving force of diffusion. The buffer serves to maintain the pH of the water. So keep the pH from rising, maintain the driving force....
THIS ALL ASSUMES (so I don't get yelled at by someone later....) that pH is the driving force for diffusion. Now, if there are other compounds that are physically dissolving out of the concrete into the water during Kuring and that is what is the driving factor then buffer won't help.
This is why I was hoping we could convince
@Randy Holmes-Farley to come by and bless us with some of his knowledge!