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All of the back and forth in this thread about what behavior is acceptable and what isn't is ridiculous. Points are all taken and dead horses beaten. How about we ALL stop being argumentative? If you would like to discuss whether we should berate and belittle each other we could have another thread. None of this is helping the OP get through the current situation.
OP, please let us know how things are going for you.
Thank you @CindyKz
I feel and understand the OP dilemma. I made tons of error when I started. (Long before the internet, cell phones, and thankfully Katie Perry)
I agree, let’s not throw the water out since we tossed the baby. (Is that right?) I would work slowly on getting the tank cleaned up so to speak. Water changes, vacuuming sand, changing any mechanical filtration like sponges or sock, run something like a Polyfilter or metasorb, catbon, heavy skimming, maybe some macro algae. The toxin is not as bad a trying to pull out copper from a tank. In time you will get the water back to where you need it.
Side note, not to anyone specific since I am guilty of this as well
Regardless of the position a person takes on the situation no matter what the thread is about, there is a way to make a point and a way not to. I always say, and do, read and re read you posts. Pretend you are reading it like someone sent it to you.
Keep hope alive, save the whales, and the cia is reading our brains man.