I'm going to take just a minute to step past the good mornings (good morning, by the way :))...
As a mod and admin at R2R and I do expect myself to spread my wings to encourage, redirect, and protect the community and its members. I sometimes see the "rude but true" justification and that's not okay. I am not asking anyone to step into a conversation where they are uncomfortable, but please consider using the report button or reaching out to me so that I and the moderator team can review the situation and take the appropriate action. We don't see everything, sometimes we need a nudge, we don't always act quickly, we don't always get it right, but we all believe in R2R and are working to be better.