Nothing against the store owner but @Randy Holmes-Farley is extremely knowledgeable in parameters and the chemistry of aquariums.Aquarium store owner diagnosed it.
Where are you getting your RODI water and Saltwater? Are you making it or buying it from the LFS? Have you checked the PH from new water before it is added to your tank?
I didnt see if you are dosing anything like kalkwasser or calcium or anything else.