Sounds like I’ll save him for the big system. A vendor I’m trying out did get in some green clown gobies so I’ll get a couple of those for my green flair. Hopefully they come out to swim with everyone. Size and temperament are much less risky.
You're going to make errors out of ignorance all the way, but that's how you learn what works in your system.
I had 350 dollars in fish killed by one fish not too long ago because I was unaware that the fish I had were jerks. I've never seen them act like that until I added more fish. Then they were murdered.
I have the Melanurus, 2 redbelted anthias, 2 lyretail anthias, 8 green chromis, a diamond goby and an exquisite fairy wrasse in my 45. It's actually peaceful now that I found a combo of fish that I like and that keep each other in check. I have 4 pepperming shrimp in there too and no one bothers them. They actually clean fish.
In my personal opinion, if you want success with the Melanurus Wrasse, raise it from a baby.
Obviously that's not going to change genetically imprinted instincts, but if they have food and a good environment, they're not bad. I'm fine with mine. I won't get rid of him. Id get him his own tank before I did that.
Mine could kill everything in my tank, yet he just does his own thing and the other fish stay out of his way.