Mike,
Thank you so much for sharing your tank. It is an inspiration and a reminder that not all tanks need to be SPS to be stunning. I've gone through a similar situation as you did, with my tank crashing at the end of last year. Since then my tank has been in a some what limbo state as I've been gun shy to put all of the money back in that I once had. Unfortunately my job takes me away from my family and tank for extended periods and it can leave the maintenance up to my wife. She does the best she can, but it is my hobby and I know that I has put her through the ringer when things have gone south and I'm not home.
Needless to say I came to the conclusion that maybe a Softy tank would be a much better alternative to the SPS/LPS headache that I've had for the last 8 years. It has been so long since I've shopped for softies, I don't know where to start. LOL. I would like to just get back to my wife and I just enjoying the tank and having a healthy environment for my fish.
My questions to you, if you had to start over what would you have done differently? Would you have planted your Corals in a different order (I.e. Leather and gorg. Before fast spreading corals such as Xenia or symposiums that can smother and cover)? Which coral has been the big pain? With your feeding methods to you find you can retain and grow some NPS Corals? And what type of clean up crew do you incorporate in your tank?
Thanks for your time and sharing your experiences