Hello everyone, I appreciate all the nice comments above, sorry I disappeared. For anybody that didn't hear the story, the issue was a faulty alk reading. It was crazy high and took me far too long to figure out what was going on. The test read in the 7's and then I let my alk creep up a bit slowly which wasn't an issue except it wasn't really in the 7's. Long story short it was really a lot higher.
Fast forward and while I lost a bunch of stuff I can't replace and had to sale some of my favorite fish, I did learn from this. I'm back doing things the way that makes the most sense for me, nice and complicated! I honestly like my tank better this way and think I'm a better reefer this way. Keeping things simple is not for me and never was.
Now the tank is starting to rebound. I'm seeing polyps again and a little new growth. The goal is to grow the nicest sps corals I've grown yet. Most of my established colonies were either removed or severely trimmed and starting to rebound. I have some new space to play with now and more than enough frags to fill it.
Moving forward with fish, I'm undecided if I'll add almost reef safe Angels again or not. I go back and forth with it, love them but it's also cool to have some freedom with corals at the same time. I can have some Zoanthids again! We have learned that they do make great indicators of unhealthy sps corals, they knew before me. Just one of many things I should've caught but didn't .
Just wanted to let you guys know I'm still kicking, stay tuned for something new.