I won't help anybody unless they ask me a dozen times over a period of six months. They see my tank and it looks easy, but they have no idea. The only guy that I have brought into the hobby worked his way through African cichlids, freshwater planted and now reef and has really done a good job of gaining the necessary experience and temperament. He is thriving. ...the rest just want it now with no work.
It is easier just to become friends with folks who are in the hobby already.
It is easier just to become friends with folks who are in the hobby already.