There is a reason some of the best reefers in the world had trouble with dry rock. If Sanjay Joshi, Mike Paletta, and their counterparts in Europe all couldn't grow acros (well montis in sanjays case) before 18-24 months in a tank with dry rock, that's nothing to brush aside.
Whats odd is that plenty of people who are far less capable than them have had success with dry rock or even no rock systems. The "it's just about stability" argument as far as testable parameters goes out the window entirely because obviously they kept stable parameters in their tanks. Any user controlled aspect of the tank as far as what a reefkeeper would normally do to grow corals quickly goes out the window really, because it's not like normal hobbyists who've had success were using some secret tactic that some of the best reefers in the world don't know or didn't try.
So you cant say dry rock vs live rock doesn't matter, because we have no idea. That's the truth. Some people have problems, some dont.
I wouldn't say that they are "the best reefers in the world", don't get me wrong, I personally know Mike and Sanjay, fine guys and all and I am not down grading their skill level or experience, but there are many people as skilled and more skilled than the people you mention, just not as famous in the hobby. How do you know Mike, Sanjay, David and all the others keep perfect stability in their tanks? These guys have lives just like every body and if you think Mikes numbers have gone out of swing from time to time I think that you are mistaken. Still stability is extremely important for an SPS tank.
My little tank at work I am sitting right in front of the thing 40+ hours a week. I'm sure that it gets more attention than the majority of tanks out there. I know there are other people that spend a great deal of time with their tanks as well.
I totally agree that we do not know if it is dry rock vs live rock or what the factors are. There is proof that people have been very successful using dry bleached rock while other have not been. That is the only proof that we have.