Tank birthday, 47+ years

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I just finished my water change using fake water. I can't wait until I move because I will be right near the sea and I can just back my car up to the water and pump it into containers.
This mixing and lugging around ASW water is getting old as I am.
I changed about a third of my tank water or a little more which is probably the largest water change I ever did. Now when I test my nitrates it is still off the chart but it made me feel better anyway. My fish don't seem to care one way or the other.

I am real happy now for a couple of reasons. My wife seems to be getting slightly better as the days pass. She is still in pain but not as severe so maybe she won't have to get Gamma Knife "surgery" again. We are hoping so anyway because it's better to get better on your own than to have some guy who you hope at least went to high school send radiation into your brain. What if he was out the day they showed him how not to fry the patients neural network.

The other reason I am happy is because in my new house with my new "huge" workshop I need a few more tools. My router specifically. My old one croaked. (for you electronic Geeks this router is for wood working and not the thing with all the blinking LEDs on it that lets you contact your Geek friends through the cloud, the net or however you guys contact each other to talk about how much RAM and megabytes you have so you can stream Lady GaGa quotes at each other at the speed of light or watch TV in Blue Ray whatever that is)

Anyway I found an American made router. I almost did a backflip in the store. It seems that DeWalt has a line of American tools, Who knew. The only reason I never replaced any of my power tools is that I could never find an American one. I looked at Porta Cable, Bosch, Craftsman, Milwaukee, Ryobi and some names I can't pronounce but they all come from places I can't pronounce and I won't buy them.
I will also get a scroll saw but so far I can't find one made in the US so if I can, I will try to find a used American one. I have a large band saw but for fine work, it is too big.
Dewalt american made? They use Global Parts i thought.
Milwaukee really good imo.
 
I am in the process of moving from using mixed salt water to using nsw in my tank. I can only dream of having the success you have had. It's readily available for me so I will probably be doing once a month 20-30% and see how it goes.
 
I wanna get myself a Diatom filter just to polish my water.

I used to have one years ago and loved it. I'm not sure what happened to it because I don't remember throwing it away. I think that when we had our septic flood downstairs, the clean up folks tossed it along with a ton of other junk that got ruined. I loved that filter, wish I had it now. I guess I'll have to save up and buy one. They're great.
 
Dewalt american made? They use Global Parts i thought.
Milwaukee really good imo.

It had in big writing on the outside of the box "Made in America" Unless just the box was made in America. :rolleyes:

Kevin, I have 5 diatoms in varying degrees of erosion as they rust away before your eyes. Out of 5 of them I had enough parts to get one working. :eek:
 
I was looking at what I got my wife for Christmas and I decided that it wasn't enough so I figured, stupidly, that I would go to a store and get her something else, 3 days before Christmas. So I drive to Sears. No, I didn't buy her anything there. If I bought my wife something in Sears, she would throw it at me.
You go there for cro bars chain saws and axes.
I parked in Sears parking lot because no one goes there so you can park. I walked through the store to get to the stores on the other side where you can't buy a parking space. Remember, this is New York.

So I find this Girly Girl store and go in. I am of course the only man.
10' in the store they have these down coats so I grab one. XXL, XL, L, XXS, XXXS etc.
My wife wears a small. I couldn't find one. Then out of the corner of my eye, I spot one on the floor, in between the racks where no one looks. I got it, it's a small.

I go to the counter and I am in luck, there are four girls working there and only two people on line. At least I thought there were only two people on line. There was really 6 or 7 people on line but they were all off looking for some other stupid thing and the 2 people on line were saving their place.

So I wait, and I wait, and I wait. Like really! How do you Ladies shop. Just throw some money on the counter and leave.

They are all showing pictures of their dog to the sales girl or asking about the return policy, exchanging E Mails, how the stuff is sized, what kind of bodice it has, like what is that? All sorts of silly questions that they should have Googled before they got on line in front of me. If I had a gun, I would have blew my brains out.

There is no way I would wait in a Mans store. Just hand me my box of cro bars, I will give you more than the thing costs, I don't need a receipt, have no questions, don't own a dog so I won't show you pictures of him. I don't want to make friends with you or give to charities like homeless dogs, homeless chinchilla's, chimpanzees or sign my name to save the whales, porpoises, duck billed platypuses, bald eagles or eagles with hair.

Just get me out of here.
I said it many times. I know how to move these lines along. They should have two lines. One for people with nothing to do and no life who don't mind spending the Christmas season on line. They can pay the normal price, get a receipt, talk about the store policy, discuss fall colors, sign up for a credit card or save the whales.

Then the other line, lets call it the express line, will move very fast. For the people with a life who just want to get out there should be a girl (or man, elf, leprechaun, etc.) at the door with a bucket. If the item is marked $137,52, the person in a hurry can give her any amount he or she wants higher than $137.52. I would give her $150.00 and run out. No receipt, no questions, no bag, no box, no thank you but I would say Merry Christmas and be on my way. The rest of the people on the slow line can spend Christmas on line.

The extra money in the bucket at the end of the day can go to save the whales, seals and eagles with hair. Like whats the problem!
 
It had in big writing on the outside of the box "Made in America" Unless just the box was made in America. :rolleyes:

Kevin, I have 5 diatoms in varying degrees of erosion as they rust away before your eyes. Out of 5 of them I had enough parts to get one working. :eek:
I'm just messing with ya. They do assemble it in the USA but i think the global Materials part means like a brushless motor wasn't made here.
I know years ago they was gonna make a plant somewhere here in Indiana but i never heard anything else about it.
 
I hate shopping, even in places like Cabelas or Bass Pro Shops... I get a cart, fill it up with the stuff that I "need" (want), then feel guilty and put 9/10 of it back and get what I really "need". Meanwhile, my wife feeds off my guilt and has no problem spending the money that I just saved at the store that you went to, while she shows off pictures of the cat and swaps stories with just about anyone that will listen to her, as she walks out with Christmas gifts for just about everyone she knows for 8 years in advance. Then, as the years roll by, those gifts that were meant to give to people get buried in newer gifts, become obsolete and mixed up gifts that she got from her friends and family that she doesn't like (and wants to re-gift), but can't remember which ones she bought or who gave her what, so we have a spare bedroom full of gifts that she can't figure out how to give them out. So, now she has to go back to that store.
 
First of all my wife is a little better today and is eating, talking, exercizing and most of all telling me what I should do which is great. Now I can go on with my selective hearing like all Men get. But I love it when she gets even a little better. :p

I came across my interview on a local radio station from 2 years ago. Actually someone on another forum informed me he just heard it and I have been looking for it but thought it was lost or cancelled.
It is boreing so no need to listen to it. The first half is about hobbies and the second half is about my time in Viet Nam. A close friend of mine for most of my life was the host and I am still not sure why he wanted me on unless PeeWee Herman was busy and they needed to fill air time.

I was also thrilled to learn that my Steam Punk projects may be on display and for sale in two mid town art galleries in Manhattan. I am all excited over my wife and that bit of news.

http://www.tonhprojectindependence.n...EGMENT%203.mp3

http://www.tonhprojectindependence.n...EGMENT%204.mp3

Paul i must say every post of yours has so much depth. I am glad to hear your wife is feeling a bit better and our prayers are with her for more recovery. i heard the no.2 of the above and man i tell ya i got goose bumps listening to it...all the best buddy..
 
Thanks Reef Able. I got goose bumps telling it. I didn't know he was going to ask me about Nam. I ended that story at the beginning of the firefight because it gets gory. But I am extremely glad I came home in one piece and my mind is "mostly" intact. I just have some PTSD that the VA told me I have. As a matter of fact just yesterday I got a letter from them informing me that I can get my taxes lowered because I have a 40% disability which I didn't even know about. I thought I was about 97% perfect, but I was wrong. Very wrong as my wife will attest to. :rolleyes:

Some of my posts seem to have depth because I write them at depth. :rolleyes: But I get in trouble a lot because I am old and not very politically correct so I often unintentionally offend people. (some of that is probably due to PTSD. At least thats what the physiologist at the VA told me) I have very thick Sicilian skin and can't be offended and I wrongly feel everyone is like that. But they are not. :confused:

 
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I am in the process of moving from using mixed salt water to using nsw in my tank. I can only dream of having the success you have had. It's readily available for me so I will probably be doing once a month 20-30% and see how it goes.

Fishy, your fish are going to love you. Look closely at their smile. :p
 
I haven't bought anything or fixed anything in my tank in a long time due to my impending move. Some of my gorgonians don't look real good as some sponge grew on them. I should have pulled it off but very busy now. I did a huge water change a couple of days ago, the biggest one I ever did and I will want to test the nitrates just for giggles. It is probably still over 100.
The tank has been severly neglected but it is what it is. I am moving 60 miles east and I keep going there to my storage unit to bring stuff and check on the progress of the build. I also keep making changes with the electrician and plumber. I will change many things after I move in so I took pictures of all the beams and rafters. They won't let me do anything now but I have to move a doorway as one of my first things because it is right in the middle of my workbench. I could do it now in 5 minutes, but not allowed to. :confused:
 
Amazing audio clip of your account of your time in hell. From the sounds of it, you are about three years older than me. In 1970 I was a junior in high school, living in southern California. I registered for the draft in 1972. I am extremely fortunate that I was not called. Young people today don't even realize what the draft was, or how not all lottery "winners" hit the jackpot. I had friends that were called and luckily most came home, but some did not. That was such a terrible time in our country's history.

You came home with the same attitude as one of my best friends that survived his tour of duty there. Surviving your life's worst experience made you realize that the rest of your life would be a piece of cake. No matter what. You never sweat the small stuff. I admire your outlook on life and enjoy reading the things you write and now, listening to your stories. Thanks for posting those links.
 
Fin, I will be 69 in two days, Christmas day, which is also the reason I played Santa for most of my life. :p

When I got drafted there was no lottery, that came after I went in. In 1969 when I was drafted, everyone was eligible and if you were 18, in decent health and not in college (which I have a really big problem with as I feel that if you were lucky enough to have the money to go to college, you should be the first ones to go and fight for your country. But what do I know)
I feel I did come back better and I can usually tell a combat Veteran from 100 yards away. We have a different attitude and silly things like "OMG, my fish got ich, Or I got fired, I have pimples, no prom date, psoriasis, broken tooth, dented car etc.
Most of my friends served but the ones that didn't have a totally different perspective on things. If getting fired, breaking your arm, having a car accident or losing a parent was the worse thing in your life, then everything that is even a little worse is a big deal until the next worse thing comes along. So your life is one bad "tragedy" after another. But if you see heavy combat at a young age where people are dying all around you and you have a very good chance of dying, after which you have to put some of your very young friends in body bags with their parts, and write to their Mother of how he died, it changes you no matter who you are. Especially if some of those friends died in your arms. Not much is worse except for maybe losing a child, that has to be the worse thing and I hope I never experience it.

Today the wars are much different, thankfully. Can you imagine if today we had a battle where we killed 200 enemy and we lost 40 or 50 Americans in an hour was in the news, people would go crazy. Probably rightly so. But in those days, losing 50 guys in one battle wasn't even reported, as it was commonplace. On the Wall in Washington, for the day of that battle I spoke of, it lists a few people dying that day. It is wrong. I loaded many of them on the chopper myself. They spread out the names so it didn't look so bad.

If today everyone had to serve, we wouldn't see all the people on welfare, people protesting, breaking windows, rioting etc. More people would have a love for the country as I and many Veterans do.
They would also have a work ethic and want to work and do a good job, be proud of what they do. But much of that is gone now because people don't have to do anything for the country except take from it. It makes me very sad. :(
I actually like the days when if you could work, but you didn't want to, you starved.

There are a few pictures of the place here and the guys I served with. My picture is not there, I looked. It was Fire Base Illingworth. https://www.facebook.com/FSB-Illingworth-144305559024950/

They wrote a book about it. You can see some of the bunkers I spoke about on the radio and other pictures of the place. I think if you click on the book or Google FSB Illingworth, you can read about the battle.

This guy, Peter Lemon was awarded the Medal Of Honor that day. I got a Bronze Star that day, not because I did anything heroic but all the guys there were heroic. I was just one of the few guys still walking around to receive the medal. That was one of two Bronze Stars I received that year. But I would have rather been home feeding my fish.
This tells something of the battle. If you are interested. (not really about fish, Sorry)


What they say about the 1st Bn, 77th Arty being hit with 7 losses, those were my men as I was the Commo Chief and I should have also been in there. But I was out on the perimeter or helping with the big guns.
 
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Thank you for your service that helped to keep us free!! My uncle also served in Vietnam and came home with a purple heart. He was never the same. One thing I do remember is that he always had a strong work ethic and was always willing to help anyone who needed it. He had a drinking problem and I asked him one day why he drank so much and he told me it helped him forget all he saw and did, if only for a short while. I do agree with you that too many people only want to take and not give. God bless!!
 
Thank you Fishybizzness. Your Uncle is a Patriot. I have a few mental issues (that many people point out to me, especially my wife who knew me before the Army)
It's mostly my impatience. I don't really wait in lines and really hate traffic, one reason I am moving farther away from Manhattan.

People tell me I talk the way I think which also gets me in trouble as I don't have much of a filter and I see things differently than most people. Only combat Vets would understand.
The VA also told me that the reason I seem to be creative, is from the PTSD. My mind works differently and I can't shut it off and have a really bad time trying to sleep. But that is a better "Problem" than many Viet Nam Vets have as unfortunately too many of them didn't cope with civilian life well and I can't blame them.
I myself can't recall 95% of that battle. The VA Phyc. told me that is due to PTSD. I don't want to remember anyway so sometimes PTSD is a good thing. :cool:
 
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Ok, so you are a couple years older than I thought I had figured out from what you said. I am 63 today, so we are both December born. I will read the article and do some research, as I am interested. I am sure it was unsettling to find out (much later) that you were unknowingly sent on a suicide mission and considered expendable. Thank God you survived.
 
Thank you Fin. I actually didn't know that or much about that battle until many years later in that book. We were not told anything at the time.

Happy Birthday :D
 

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