When you’re talking about a simple subject when there is a simple right or wrong answer.... with reefing this is not the case. More than one way to find success. Just look at any qt thread.
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When you’re talking about a simple subject when there is a simple right or wrong answer.... with reefing this is not the case. More than one way to find success. Just look at any qt thread.
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I once had someone (on Reef Central) tell me this:
Some of my fish got white spots so I flushed them all down the toilet. So I buy all new fish, they get white dots, so I flush all them down the toilet.
And then he wants to argue with me when I try to explain the parasites are now in the tank, not just on the fish. I mean, what am I supposed to do with that except walk away??
Sometimes truth hurts.This thread makes new member feel great I bet lol...
Its definitely not you. No one can be expected to help a person who won't try to help themselves.But there's times (and maybe it's me) that I'ld like to say - "Great question & I'ld like to help you but I need to know your parameters". Sorry
Tbh I haven got a lot of help from people in there. So thanks. And yea they truth hurts. But ignorance is not the same as not knowing imo.Sometimes truth hurts.
Very true. It’s not just with reefing
One of my fav sayings...
A dumb person makes the same mistakes.
A smart person learns from their mistakes.
A genius learns from the mistakes of others.
Then again, there’s so many ppl out there pretending to know things that you really have to sift through the crap to get good honest advice these days
Tbh I haven got a lot of help from people in there. So thanks. And yea they truth hurts. But ignorance is not the same as not knowing imo.
some don’t want your advice, some do and don’t understand it, and some don’t have the funds to fix the issue so maybe are trying to find a different way.
such is life.
but as a community of reefers do you really want them to read a post with 50 vets taking about how smart they ar me lol
Either way thanks for the help
When I see a post that says help with whatever it is I cringe cause I know they gonna hit him/her from all directions cause everyone is an expert and even the person asking for help is an expertSo many threads of trying to help some people and those people just don’t listen.
Some folks, “My fish died, why?”
Us, “What’s your ammonia, nitrite, nitrate. How old is tank? What are you using as for water, salt?
Some folks “ 0,0,0 or I need to go buy kits. I’ll get back to you”, “Tap water and water softener salt, Rock salt, Pool salt, why does it mater salt is salt.”
Me, “ DOH”.... throws hands in the air as if the poster could see me..
Way to many posts similar to the above. I wish I could make this up.. but I can’t. I start trying to help folks but when they start telling you that they have used Pool salt or Rock salt for their tank.. It blows my mind. Others try to help but they just keep going down a path of weird. You gotta wonder if you’re getting trolled. Nope, they are serious.
Anyway, just tired of trying to help and getting told.. Nah.. Going to do it my way anyway.
If you see this happening just add #reefsquad to the post .....reefsquad members then get a message and can jump in and help ...When I see a post that says help with whatever it is I cringe cause I know they gonna hit him/her from all directions cause everyone is an expert and even the person asking for help is an expert
I dont mind helping even if the questions are along the pool or rock salt type as long as they try and find the answer on their own first.
So many of these type questions could be answered on their own by a quick search.
When I put in more work than the poster to find the answers, thats where I draw the line.