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Thank you for the detailed feedback. Everything was going smoothly until recently, but something seems to have triggered this sudden aggression in the tank.It’s getting wild because you are putting too many fishes in the tank. Your tank is too small to host 5-6-7? Fishes. And that tang is too big for the tank my guy. We should try to give them an environment where they can prosper. Stop adding fishes for awhile.
Also re-arranging rockscapes do help with aggression too.
Thanks for your comment. I am aware of the points you raised. If you look back at my previous posts, you’ll see that I sometimes struggle to set limits for myself when it comes to this hobby.The issues you are describing are the result of over stocking the system and your choice of fish. In an already over stocked tank the addition of another fish is a recipe for disaster.
A Blue Tang in a 20 gallon is not best practice. Passive Fire Fish are not going to be able to stand up to Damsels.
It's not surprising in the least that these issues are arising and sadly will result in the demise of one or more of the fish. The system is not going crazy, it's the expected outcome of poor stocking choices.
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To many fish/to large of a fish. When fish are small they seem like they will work in a small tank. In fact initially a small tank at a tangs young age can have more space than most people will in larger when fully grown. Example, I small 4 inch tang in a 40g vs it fully grown to 14 to 16 inches in a 90 or 120 gallon. And while peaceful fish can coexist in crowded tank as well, usually there is still territory disputes. I have kept things before I shouldn't have and we all may have a time or two. Some limits can be based on opinion. But the tang unless just temporary or for treatment shouldn't be in a 20. Especially after it reaches about 2 to 3 inches. I have seen them com in as small as half inch roughly.
Damselfish are also just jerks. Some just aren't as big of a jerk as others lol. Sometimes a large tank they are still bullies. The is one species called springer that seem to be not as aggressive and certain clownfish such as oscilarious or percula can be a little less aggressive or just as aggressive. Chromis which are similar are usually only jerks to each other. But with anything different people will have different experiences as every fish can behave differently.
Edit, I would remove the tang, yellow wrasse I saw in pic, dottyback and damsel. Just keep firefish. And clownfish. You can keep manderin but try to switch it over to frozen or other prepared foods. Might need to be slowly transitioned. If you cant get it to switch think about rehoming or getting one that is raised on pellet or frozen already. Create a stock list if you get rid of mandarin of what you would like or ideas and community can help. Maybe even with fish you didn't think about. There is some really cool smaller fish.
Thank you so much for your kind message and for sharing your knowledge and experience with me. I really appreciate it.To many fish/to large of a fish. When fish are small they seem like they will work in a small tank. In fact initially a small tank at a tangs young age can have more space than most people will in larger when fully grown. Example, I small 4 inch tang in a 40g vs it fully grown to 14 to 16 inches in a 90 or 120 gallon. And while peaceful fish can coexist in crowded tank as well, usually there is still territory disputes. I have kept things before I shouldn't have and we all may have a time or two. Some limits can be based on opinion. But the tang unless just temporary or for treatment shouldn't be in a 20. Especially after it reaches about 2 to 3 inches. I have seen them com in as small as half inch roughly.
Damselfish are also just jerks. Some just aren't as big of a jerk as others lol. Sometimes a large tank they are still bullies. The is one species called springer that seem to be not as aggressive and certain clownfish such as oscilarious or percula can be a little less aggressive or just as aggressive. Chromis which are similar are usually only jerks to each other. But with anything different people will have different experiences as every fish can behave differently.
Edit, I would remove the tang, yellow wrasse I saw in pic, dottyback and damsel. Just keep firefish. And clownfish. You can keep manderin but try to switch it over to frozen or other prepared foods. Might need to be slowly transitioned. If you cant get it to switch think about rehoming or getting one that is raised on pellet or frozen already. Create a stock list if you get rid of mandarin of what you would like or ideas and community can help. Maybe even with fish you didn't think about. There is some really cool smaller fish.
I would syphon the sand as you pull out the rock. This will prevent any spikes if there is detritus and stuff trapped under. This would also be a good time to catch what you need to remove. You could also setup the rockwork outside tank to how you want then place in tank. I like the negative space currently. Allows room for maintenance and cleaning but can add some branching pieces as well that will keep some of the negative swimming space and provide a barrier, but still allow more structure.To many fish/to large of a fish. When fish are small they seem like they will work in a small tank. In fact initially a small tank at a tangs young age can have more space than most people will in larger when fully grown. Example, I small 4 inch tang in a 40g vs it fully grown to 14 to 16 inches in a 90 or 120 gallon. And while peaceful fish can coexist in crowded tank as well, usually there is still territory disputes. I have kept things before I shouldn't have and we all may have a time or two. Some limits can be based on opinion. But the tang unless just temporary or for treatment shouldn't be in a 20. Especially after it reaches about 2 to 3 inches. I have seen them com in as small as half inch roughly.
Damselfish are also just jerks. Some just aren't as big of a jerk as others lol. Sometimes a large tank they are still bullies. The is one species called springer that seem to be not as aggressive and certain clownfish such as oscilarious or percula can be a little less aggressive or just as aggressive. Chromis which are similar are usually only jerks to each other. But with anything different people will have different experiences as every fish can behave differently.
Edit, I would remove the tang, yellow wrasse I saw in pic, dottyback and damsel. Just keep firefish. And clownfish. You can keep manderin but try to switch it over to frozen or other prepared foods. Might need to be slowly transitioned. If you cant get it to switch think about rehoming or getting one that is raised on pellet or frozen already. Create a stock list if you get rid of mandarin of what you would like or ideas and community can help. Maybe even with fish you didn't think about. There is some really cool smaller fish.
Thank you so much for your kind message and for sharing your knowledge and experience with me. I really appreciate it.To many fish/to large of a fish. When fish are small they seem like they will work in a small tank. In fact initially a small tank at a tangs young age can have more space than most people will in larger when fully grown. Example, I small 4 inch tang in a 40g vs it fully grown to 14 to 16 inches in a 90 or 120 gallon. And while peaceful fish can coexist in crowded tank as well, usually there is still territory disputes. I have kept things before I shouldn't have and we all may have a time or two. Some limits can be based on opinion. But the tang unless just temporary or for treatment shouldn't be in a 20. Especially after it reaches about 2 to 3 inches. I have seen them com in as small as half inch roughly.
Damselfish are also just jerks. Some just aren't as big of a jerk as others lol. Sometimes a large tank they are still bullies. The is one species called springer that seem to be not as aggressive and certain clownfish such as oscilarious or percula can be a little less aggressive or just as aggressive. Chromis which are similar are usually only jerks to each other. But with anything different people will have different experiences as every fish can behave differently.
Edit, I would remove the tang, yellow wrasse I saw in pic, dottyback and damsel. Just keep firefish. And clownfish. You can keep manderin but try to switch it over to frozen or other prepared foods. Might need to be slowly transitioned. If you cant get it to switch think about rehoming or getting one that is raised on pellet or frozen already. Create a stock list if you get rid of mandarin of what you would like or ideas and community can help. Maybe even with fish you didn't think about. There is some really cool smaller fish.
I want you to know that I’m taking your advice seriously. I’ve actually thought about doing a complete species overhaul myself, but catching these little rascals is no easy task!
I’m also considering rearranging the rockwork, but I’m a bit worried about spiking my already high nitrates and upsetting the balance in such a small volume. I’m also trying to figure out where I could even place extra rocks if I added any. Maybe I’ll come up with a solid plan and reorganize eventually.
But you're right my fish have definitely grown, and I need to get ahead of the situation before it becomes a bigger problem.
Hello everyone!
I wanted to give an update on the latest situation. Some very, very interesting things have been happening in the tank lately.
First, the good news: I added a Mandarin. It seems healthy for now, and I haven't run into any issues. I’m continuing to seed the display tank with pods from the sump. At first, the damsels harassed it, but it recovered within a day or two and seems to be accepted now.
However, the general vibe has turned extremely aggressive over the last week. I lost both of my shrimp. I found their molts first; the first shrimp was caught in the wavemaker, and I found it being eaten by the anemones. It likely molted, was vulnerable, and couldn't escape. My second shrimp got stuck in the wavemaker as well—I noticed just in time to rescue it while it was still struggling, but it died shortly after and was consumed by the fish and nassarius snails.
Then there's the Firegoby. It was doing great and looked very fit lately, but this wave of aggression got to it too. Its fins and tail were completely shredded. I managed to get it out of the tank before it died and rehomed it to someone else.
The strangest part? One of my two Talbot's Damsels beat the other one to death overnight; I found the carcass the next morning. Even the Blue Tang and Yellow Wrasse have joined in on the bullying. The tank has gone absolutely crazy for reasons I can't explain.
In a "fight fire with fire" move, I decided to add a medium-to-large Splendid Dottyback, hoping its tough personality might bring some order back to the tank. As soon as it went in, the Blue Tang attacked it and nipped off a piece of its dorsal fin. It’s currently hiding, so I’m not sure of its status yet! :D
I have no idea what to do next, but things are definitely getting wild in my reef. I’ll keep you posted on any further developments.
Thank you so much for your kind message and for sharing your knowledge and experience with me. I really appreciate it.
I want you to know that I’m taking your advice seriously. I’ve actually thought about doing a complete species overhaul myself, but catching these little rascals is no easy task!
I’m also considering rearranging the rockwork, but I’m a bit worried about spiking my already high nitrates and upsetting the balance in such a small volume. I’m also trying to figure out where I could even place extra rocks if I added any. Maybe I’ll come up with a solid plan and reorganize eventually.
But you're right my fish have definitely grown, and I need to get ahead of the situation before it becomes a bigger problem.
I certainly have no intention of causing any distress to the fish; I try my best to take good care of them, but sometimes these things happen.
I would syphon the sand as you pull out the rock. This will prevent any spikes if there is detritus and stuff trapped under. This would also be a good time to catch what you need to remove. You could also setup the rockwork outside tank to how you want then place in tank. I like the negative space currently. Allows room for maintenance and cleaning but can add some branching pieces as well that will keep some of the negative swimming space and provide a barrier, but still allow more structure.
We all have that impulse to buy what we know shouldn't lol and make mistakes. Since you are upgrading, you could find a larger temp tank to throw everything in until you are setup, or just another tank for temp. Something used is fine.
If you plan to upgrade get a large 40 gallon tub and put half fish in it with some rocks from the main tank. Add some new rocks and add an air pump.
I will be honest the way you are adding fish is accustom to dog fighting tbh. Saying you are impulsive or just can’t control yourself is not reasonable. Even if you buy a larger tank tomorrow it will take you time to cycle it and even then it won’t surprise me if they are all dead from fighting by then.
Easiest and best way to catch the fish is to simply drain the water to very low and just scoop them out. Much less stress on the fish and less mess made in the tank.
Seems like your tank/fishes were on the borderline of overstocking and caused aggressions and many casualties….
First of all, I would like to thank everyone individually for their feedback. Since many of you shared similar points, I wanted to provide a collective response.I sincerely appreciate your concern for the tank inhabitants.
What's happening is the expected outcome when you combine the fish those choices and the size of the tank. Fish have no where to flee to.
Going forward you should be more proactive in seeking assistance here.
Each one of us has made mistakes. Ideally we share those mistakes and move forward to provide the best care for our fish and inverts.