What I would do is raise the KH to at least 9 and I would probably just use sodium carbonate to do that. Kalk does lose potency with air contact and mixing, so that could be but it is hard to add enough talk to do much, I would get the KH adjusted higher and then the kalk can help more with stabilizing. The lower drip rate will help, with a high drip rate more CO2 escapes, the longer the contact time of the acid water and the media, the higher the KH of the dripped effluent will be so a higher drip rate, does not always equal more calcium and carbonate.